Hi,
I have been in relation since past 3 years and now she got engaged. After her engagement, we came to know that we can't live without each other and we have decided to ask our parents. But, I am a Brahmin and she is Rajput. Anyhow, I have convened my parents and now she has asked her parents regarding our relation and parents are saying that you are now engaged so this won't be possible and the guy is also not from our caste so its not possible.

We can't run away and get marry because she is engaged and if this happens then her parents will have to suffer a lot.

Can you please help on this how to convene her parents that they will allow her to marry me.

Thanks,
Nish

Sounds like her parents made up their minds, especially the day that she got engaged. That's a pretty clear message to us. So unless you run away with her, it doesn't look like you have any options.

I would say, leave her alone and go on with your life. I know it's going to be extremely tough to do so, but sometimes, these things are out of your control.