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xadmin
Aug 27, 2009, 03:34 PM
I keep reading this forum and whenever I hear that an EX dumps someone and wants space, the advice to the dumpee has always been give her/him the space.

Why is giving the EX who wants space a good idea? Would this just allow them to fall into another person's arm if there is somebody in the wing?


What if a person doesn't give that EX the space? What are the negatives?

J_9
Aug 27, 2009, 03:37 PM
Why is giving the EX who wants space a good idea?

It's a good idea because this is what the ex wants.


Would this just allow them to fall into another person's arm if there is somebody in the wing?

This is possible, but remember, they are an EX. This is what ex's usually do.



What if a person doesn't give that EX the space? What are the negatives?

A restraining order.

xadmin
Aug 27, 2009, 03:42 PM
It's a good idea because this is what the ex wants.



This is possible, but remember, they are an EX. This is what ex's usually do.



A restraining order.


Yes that is one option. Beside a restraining order, would the ex resent you if you don't give them the space?

J_9
Aug 27, 2009, 03:44 PM
Of course the ex will resent you. That's a no brainer.

talaniman
Aug 27, 2009, 04:33 PM
Yes that is one option. Beside a restraining order, would the ex resent you if you don't give them the space?
They tend to resent you, then hate your guts, and are so glad they broke up with you. Case in point, https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/how-get-rid-boyfriend-wont-let-go-390741.html