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raychi
Aug 27, 2009, 04:41 AM
Well. I been going out with this boy for about 2 months now. (thats why I isn't been here)and its all going great. But, I really want to kiss him. It would be my first kiss, so I'm scared. I really want to kiss him, but I don't know whether to make the first move. I'm 14 in 2 weeks, but I'm still a little kid inside. (meaning I get easily confused.) I don't know whether I should wait till it comes naturally, or just go for it. If I wait for it to come naturally, then maybe I won't be so freaked out. But, if I don't then I might gain more confidence. So I don't have a clue to be honest! Its another typical teenage problem. But I would like some help.

raychi xx

cal823
Aug 27, 2009, 05:02 AM
if you are 14 in a few weeks you aren't just a little kid inside, you are one outside.
I didn't kiss anyone till I was 17, so don't worry, you can take your time.
On another note, be yourself, be confident, and be bold. No one is interested in that random who sits in the corner.
chin up, straight back, etc.
Good luck.

HelpinHere
Aug 28, 2009, 01:40 AM
Just wait for it.

If you make your first kiss before your ready, you'll regret it. Instead wait. You'll know when it's the time, and it'll be easy and perfect.

britEl
Aug 28, 2009, 02:34 AM
Honestly I didn't kiss a guy till I was 16, you don't need to rush things!
Anyway,
Just be confident in yourself, eventually you will know when the time comes it just flows naturally!

N0help4u
Aug 29, 2009, 11:10 AM
Don't push for a kiss.
Let him kiss you first if and when the time is right. Then you know it is something special from him. You aren't wondering if he thinks you are too pushy or he wasn't ready for it or things like that.

You are still young you don't need a kiss yet