This movie I watched in 2000 (?) 1999-98 (?) about a mercenary who decides to get out of the fight as his friend is killed in beginning of film by a little girl. He has to negotiate his way out of the front lines and along the way picks up a woman who is boieng raped and then both are on the run together. I think it was a foreign film ?

Are any these it?
Category:Bosnian War films - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Bosnian_War_films)

Probably;

Savior (1998) (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120070/)

Yes thank you that was the movie :)