My ex husband keeps sending me postage (divorce related), and he's putting his last name down as mine. The judge in court told us that I can go back to using my regular unmarried name, yet my ex still continues to use his name on me. In fact, he hyphenates my unmarried name with his married name. Strange, isn't it.

Any ideas why? Just trying to understand why anyone would do that.

Probably makes him feel better.

Probably makes him feel better.

LOL why? He's such a child

LOL why?? He's such a child

Ask him. Only he knows why.

We're not speaking to each other. I haven't spoken to him since 2006.

We're not speaking to each other. I haven't spoken to him since 2006.

Then I guess you'll never know.

Keep it that way-dont let his little mindgames get to you.

Sounds like a control freak. Just keep doing your thing.

My son's father still won't acknowledge my married name and it's been ten years.
Who cares? It doesn't really bother me because I don't have feelings for him.

Hey... two can play at that game. Why not start signing his postage, "Little Man", "Pee Wee", "One Nut", "Inky Dinky Winky", or whatever else you fancy?

Seriously don't do this. But you have to admit it would be fun.