So me and this guy did the whole friends with benefits thing... (bad idea)
Then a few weeks later he ditched me for someone else whose been after him for a little less than a year.
When I was going out with him all she had time to do was talk trash about me...
So I know she's going to try to make the relationship last long because she doesn't like me very much.
Yet, she goes and tells my ex how funny and nice she thinks I am and that me and her should be friends.
I know better than to say anything so I don't. I'm not nice to her but I'm not mean either.
I don't want to make anything worse because I don't want my ex to get upset at me because I still have feelings for him.
What can I do to show him he's with a total loser?
I wish I didn't still like him so much. And seeing them together all the time at school doesn't make anything much better. I've been trying to move on for months and I always think I have. (accomplished more little by little week by week). But whenever I see them together I feel like I can't look him in the eye.
I've limited my time talking to him. We've stopped calling. And whenever I see that he's online I make sure not to sign on to avoid talking to him.
But what is not talking to him really going to accomplish?
I don't know if I should stop talking to him or still talk to him to maintain a friendship still...
What should I do? Thanks for listening

I don't understand. Is this a continuation of another thread? I am confused...

Did you not get the answers you needed here: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/tips-getting-over-ex-38621.html

Why do you care - it was friends with benefits - YOU NEVER WERE GOING OUT!

HE'S NOT YOUR EX!!

"then a few weeks later he ditched me for someone else whose been after him for a little less than a year." - hE NEVER DITCHED YOU. You never had anything to begin with.

More reasons FWB is horrendous - this gal is now all confused - heart broken - WHEN IN REALITY SHE LET A GUY USE HER!!

You never had anything to begin with. FWB is a big stamp on your forehead saying "use Me".

He NEVER RESPECTED YOU - HE NEVER WILL RESPECT YOU.

Move on - LEARN from this.

FWB - never works - never seen it work. It IS SOOOOOO Unhealthy. SOOOOOOO unhealthy!!

You obviously didn't like what you heard in your other thread ,so I doubt you like what you hear in this one. Tell me the truth why do you have two threads, basically about the same thing?

I wish she'd come back explain herself.

I mean there wasn't a relationship to begin with. FWB means what it is. It is very clear. Your not dating. This is not your man. You are absolutely not a couple! There was no break.