I'm going into high school, and everything romantic seems to be going on there, and I want a boyfriend. This guy that hangs out with the bad kids and is a trouble maker recently asked for my number and to hook up, he had been giving me attention all of last year and I used to like him. I kind of want to go out with him, but I know no one would approve of it, I guess I just want a boyfriend for the sake of having one but I really thought I liked him, what do I do?! :eek:

Don't just settle with somebody you don't even like just so that you can have a boyfriend! That's not fair to other guy. It would be absolutely cold blooded of you. You would be using him. The answer is simple, if you don't like him don't hook up with him.

There is no point in having a boyfriend for the sake of having one its just a trouble maker and makes you seem desperate. If you do in fact like him however, then who cares if anyone 'approves'? Who exactly wouldn't approve? Your friends or your family? If it was your friends then they aren't exactly your friends then are they, if you liked them they should accept your decision. If it is your family however maybe don't make him sound like such a 'bad' guy? Anyway if you are just starting high school it is wise not to start dating right off the bat, you may think dating is the 'cool' thing to do but if you 'hook up' with to many guys you are going to get a bad rep. For the first couple months of starting high school I would suggest just making friends, focusing on your school work, and just having fun!

Bad boys are attractive to young girls, but they are often a lot of trouble, and heartache.

Look around, and see if you have better options, and get with someone who likes you, and you have fun with.

Not just to have a boyfriend, thats crazy, and childish.

Explore your new world, before you jump into something you know darn near nothing about. Your growing up, and need to learn, to be cautious, and not run head first into a brick wall. Your head ain't that hard, and it does hurt an awful lot!

Guess what? You don't like him, you lust him.

If you see him as a "bad boy" then it already shows us that you think (know?) he is no good. You see relationships all around, and want one. You don't want him, you just want a boy. Why don't you ask a better one out instead of settling because you couldn't wait?