I've been trying for a year to get pregnant. We started hot and heavy the first few months, then around jan to maybe april-may we cooled it down to maybe once or twice during that period (ovulation) and we started again a bit more and last month, the 11th month, we did it like 5 times during that period. I am sooo irregular though, since I stopped my pill last September (2008), my cyces have been 30, 35, 26, 29,42, 32, 34, 28, 33 days. During my pill, my cycle would be either 27, 28, 29, or 30 days, never less never more. Now, I' up to a 40 day cycle, I have mini cramping, but none of the usual symptoms of pregnancy or PMS. I am getting sick of trying and trying and getting no results. I'm paranoid because 6 years ago I had appendicitis, and it burst. Am I infertile for goodness sake. What do I do to get pregnant? Is it really time to see a doctor? They say stressing about it prolongs the cycle, but how do I not stress or think about it when I know its due, but I know I'm stressed at work. HELP!!

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