BrknHrtdGrl
Aug 24, 2009, 05:10 AM
Ok.. So I met this guy 5 yrs ago.We have been good friends and one night he asked to come stay with me. I agreed.We slept together and have been for almost a year. Now he is really distant, having some personal issues going on. He is not stable and I am. He was spoiled by me something terrible. I knew his situation and always was a helping hand. Couple months ago he decided that our weekly dinners and gatherings needed to be cut off because "I" was catching feelings. So being a chick I cried and tried to get understanding. Now we rarely speak when we see each other and he told me that the least we could do was be cordial and speak when we saw each other. My thing is I want and need him to be honest and tell me what it is he wants. Whether we will be strictly friends or nothing at all. When I asked him, his response was I don't know what to say to you right now... what does that mean? Granted I called him out on some things prior to me asking him that... Now my question is what should the next move be on my part?
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He also told me that he valued our friendship.. he cares about me only as a friend.. all in the same breathe please don't turn your back on me like everybody else...
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He also told me that he valued our friendship.. he cares about me only as a friend.. all in the same breathe please don't turn your back on me like everybody else...