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loveable
Aug 21, 2009, 04:32 AM
So I was at the beach with my friends and say a guy that I liked but we have never talked before. There he began to talk to me and tease me and stuff like that. He showed interest and as we were leaving he came to talk to me. We didn't give phone numbers or anything but I found his profile on the web.

What should I do:
1) View his profile so I would appear in his profile visitors?
2) Leave him a comment?
3) Add him as a friend?

And how many days would I wait to pass by from the day that I met him? [so that I would not appear as a or anything]

Thank for any help.

N0help4u
Aug 21, 2009, 04:52 AM
Add him as a friend and see what he does next

animal_lover
Aug 21, 2009, 06:53 AM
If I were you I would wait a little while, see if HE talks to you first.
You can play hard to get ;)
But if he doesn't contact you after a few days then yeah leave him a message or somthin.
Then once you got his attention you can be a little flirty if you want haha

loveable
Aug 21, 2009, 07:26 AM
mm.. the thing is that he has no way to contact me as he doesn't know I found him on the web.

animal_lover
Aug 21, 2009, 07:44 AM
mm..the thing is that he has no way to contact me as he doesn't know I found him on the web.

Hmmm. Well if you found him maybe he can find you.
You could always just leave him a message. Lol.

loveable
Aug 21, 2009, 07:58 AM
I found him because his friend is famous and so I searched in his profile. And my name is common so I doubt it that he will find me if he searches for me.

Do you think that if I will leave him a comment 3 days after we met I would look stupid or something?

animal_lover
Aug 21, 2009, 08:18 AM
No you won't look stupid. Besides if he approached you at the beach that means he's interested so he should be glad to see a comment from you.
3 days isn't long. Besides you don't want to look desperate haha.
I would leave a comment if you don't think he will be able to find you.

loveable
Aug 21, 2009, 08:32 AM
Ok thanks both, I'll take your advice.

animal_lover
Aug 21, 2009, 08:38 AM
Your wellcome, best of luck :)

loveable
Aug 22, 2009, 01:57 PM
You were right! He found me on the web before I added him as a friend =). He added me now. Should I give him my Yahoo address?

HelpinHere
Aug 22, 2009, 06:36 PM
You don't need to run here for everything! If you want to do it, do it! :)

Don't just give him anything he wants, he may be a crazy stalker, but you could always ask for his. Like, if he says "Can I have your [insert whatever here]" you say "Give me yours, and we'll see! ;)".

Make him work for it a little.

But, seriously, the first sentence in the OP, you liked him before you knew him? You NEVER like someone before you know them, you have lust for them. Get to know this guy before you try to go out with him, or it could end in disaster.

loveable
Aug 26, 2009, 01:26 PM
what I meant was that I used to see him and say wow that guy looks great. I think everybody does that. =)