Hi I'm unsure what to do with my ex I love her so much and we are sort of are talking and she wants to met next month for a meal. She ended it with me 3weeks ago and we have been together for 3 and half years. She said she stopped loving me but when she said it she was holding the tears back. I really want to see her and talk. What do I do?

Talk to her and become friends and before you know it you will go out agien

I think that you should go and meet her, take things slowly, and before you know it she'll know what she's missing.
Try not to rush things, Also, If she says she just want to be 'friends' then you know your wasting your time. Plenty more fish in the sea!

I wouldn't meet up with her and I wouldn't talk to her. It isn't fair that she has no feelings for you but you do for her, thus a meal with her will throw your emotions into overdrive. Her tears are there because she still cares about you and doesn't want to hurty you, but that is it.

Avoid the pain for now and get yourself together emotionally. What good do you think will come out of a talk with someone whom you deeply love but they do not love you? Do you think you can just magically change their mind?

If its not a meal to get back together, what's the point??

She dumped you, so do you think eating with her will make a difference? Doubt the food will be that good to change her mind at all.

Does it make any sense to reward someone with your company, who has broken your heart?

Talaniman Rule - When you get dumped, and she doesn't want you back, don't feed her.

Who pays by the way???

Talaniman Rule - Don't date your ex, after she dumps you

Not even at Mickey D's

Thing is you don't know until you try. Time apart can be a good thing. I found women moods change and if they feel traped they run. I thing this is what she is doing I'm going to let her do what she needs to do and ill do the same. See how we feel then. Again today she was asking if I know when I was free in sept.

I think its worth a try, I would go if it was me, you never know what the outcome could be,
Wouldn't you rather speak to her than not at all!
Give it a go, if it don't work out then at least you tried.