Ok I have had my fan for about a month and it just started lighting up on it's own. Last night the light came on by it's self about 6 times, it turns right off with the remote but it keeps waking me up, anyone else ever had this problem?

Try changing the frequency of the fan and remote. See:

Ceiling fan remote controls - help and FAQ- Ceiling Fans N More (http://www.ceiling-fans-n-more.com/ceiling-fan-remote-controls.php)