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gilt_girl
Aug 19, 2009, 08:22 PM
So, I'll try to make this short & sweet. I went out with this guy on Friday night, and he planned an amazing date for us. I thought we had a fabulous time... I mean the date did last for almost six hours. There was no hanky panky... well except for some innocent hand holding. I gave him a hug goodbye, and then he texted me 10minutes later saying how he had a good time & that he wants to hear more weird stuff about me next time (inside joke). He also texted "talk to you soon." Well... it's Wednesday now & I haven't heard from him yet. Did I misread him... & is he just not interested or am I just being impatient..

I'm not used to waiting this long for a guy to call me... & it's driving me nuts!

Any & all advice would be greatly appreciated :)

HelpinHere
Aug 19, 2009, 08:40 PM
Yes, you are being impatient.

My advice: Call him, don't wait around for him to call you. Every second that goes by is just wasted. Make the most of life.

autumnrainful
Aug 19, 2009, 10:07 PM
I think he likes you. You could wait a little longer. Maybe he is busy for a short while.

kctiger
Aug 20, 2009, 05:42 AM
A simple text like, "Hey you" could get a return... something flirty like that.

It doesn't always have to be the guy. Perhaps he doesn't think you were that into him... did you ever text him back saying you had a great time too?

Ren6
Aug 20, 2009, 06:21 AM
Give him a call. Sounds like he had a good time to me.

overayear
Aug 20, 2009, 08:34 AM
I think you should send him a cute text or give him a call. He is prob waiting for you to contact him next because he contacted you. You know guys like to know that the girl is intersted in them as well. Show him that you are interested.

talaniman
Aug 22, 2009, 01:35 PM
Your impatient, call him up, so he will know your interested in another date.

Ask him out. What you expect him to chase you after one date?

britEl
Aug 22, 2009, 01:43 PM
I think your just being impatient, it hasn't been that long. Maybe try texting/calling him to chill instead

asking
Aug 22, 2009, 02:02 PM
All of the above!