View Full Version : Can you get pregnant on the few last days of your period & while I'm still a virgin?
sarangheyo
Aug 19, 2009, 06:24 PM
Me and my boyfriend just had unprotected sex on my the last day of my period. Well its not really "sex" because his thing never went INSIDE the hole of my vagina, but it was still somewhere outside and inside the vagina and there's so many liquid. I wonder if It can get me pregnant Im really scared. I went to the bathroom and cleaned it up but I wonder if there's some liquid actually went inside. AND IM STILL A VIRGIN. Can I get pregnant? Im still a teenager I need help! T-T And if so.. what should I do? I can't let anyone else know especially my family... Is there anything that I can do? Helppp :[[
hheath541
Aug 19, 2009, 06:51 PM
It's unlikely, but still a slim possibility. It's safe to assume that if any semen came into contact with your vagina that pregnancy is a possibility. Also, while it's rare, it is possible to become pregnant during your period.
I wouldn't worry too much about being pregnant until you have a reason to. If you skip a period or your next period is uncharacteristic then I would suggest taking a pregnancy test and/or seeing a doctor. From now on, ALWAYS practice safe sex.
As for rather or not you are still a virgin, that's pretty much up to you to decide. The definition of virginity has changed a lot over the years, and means different things to different people. Decide what it means to you and then decide if you are still a virgin.
sarangheyo
Aug 19, 2009, 08:10 PM
But I'm too young I can't get pregnant... actually.. Im only 15 dats why Im too worry... and I really don't know what to doo :((
hheath541
Aug 19, 2009, 08:30 PM
If you think you're too young to get pregnant, then you're too young to be having sex. Taking that step and having sex means you are willing and ready to take responsibility for whatever happens afterward. Having unprotected sex when you don't want to get pregnant, or possibly get an std, is a REALLY bad idea.
Physically, you are old enough to get pregnant. Biology cares nothing about emotional maturity. Either you stop having sex or start being a lot smarter about it or you will end up with a baby you aren't ready to raise.
sarangheyo
Aug 19, 2009, 08:40 PM
I knoww dats why we said we going to stopp doing it because we both get worryy.. wah can I do?
hheath541
Aug 19, 2009, 08:43 PM
Can you please use correct spelling and grammar? It's hard to understand your posts.
The only thing you can do is wait and see. Don't stress yourself out too much. Stress can cause you to miss a period or start late, causing even more panic and stress.
sarangheyo
Aug 19, 2009, 08:48 PM
0o Im sorry about that. Okay I can use correct grammar now. By the way thank you I will try not to stress out too much but I just can't stop thinking. So should I do the home test? Cause my period was never on time, its always late since I 1st have it dats why I don't know if its because of pregnant sign..
hheath541
Aug 19, 2009, 08:51 PM
When is your next period due? Pregnancy tests won't give accurate results until you're several weeks along.
sarangheyo
Aug 19, 2009, 08:55 PM
September 10 I believe. As you were saying you think that I should go to the doctor instead?
hheath541
Aug 19, 2009, 09:05 PM
They won't give you a pregnancy test until you've actually missed a period. At this point you're just panicking. Wait until there's an actual reason to think you're pregnant. Calm down and stop working yourself up about something that very likely will turn out to be nothing. Use this as motivation to be wiser, and more careful, in the future.
sarangheyo
Aug 19, 2009, 09:07 PM
Thank you so much that was really helped. Thank you I appreciated it thank you (:
hheath541
Aug 19, 2009, 09:08 PM
No problem. I'm glad I was helpful.
sarangheyo
Aug 19, 2009, 09:11 PM
0h there is one thing.. I stomach gets really hurt around these days.. seems like I have cramps and Im really tiredd and sleeeppy... what are those saying about this?.
hheath541
Aug 19, 2009, 09:15 PM
Could very well just be you making yourself sick with worry.
sarangheyo
Aug 19, 2009, 09:16 PM
I see.. I will try not to worrry. Thank you a lot :]
Lashercelt
Aug 20, 2009, 08:44 PM
This EXACT thing happened to my best friend in high school when we were 15. She got pregnant EXACTLY like this and had an abortion all while having her virginity intact. Good luck!
Don't have sex unless you can deal with the outcome of your choices such as a baby or an irritating STD or even death from a more serious STD.
sarangheyo
Aug 22, 2009, 09:34 PM
Omg.. yer serious... now this made me worrier than ever! Omg I really don't know what to do.. when should I take a home test after it happened?
33600387t
Sep 3, 2009, 12:58 PM
The exactly same thing happened to me. I'm also 15 years old and my period is few days late and, yes we panic a lot.. I'm also thinking about taking home test but I'll wait few more days :/ good luck