Well how do I start this. Me and husband started dating in 2005. I thought I was the lucky girl because I found a guy would love my daugther if she was his own. Then we got married in 2006. We lived with his mom the whole relationship. My little girls father signed over his rights so he didn't have to pay child support. My husband wanted to adobt her but never did. Then I had our son in aug 2006. Then that's where it starts he fought about everything. He always tell me to get out. And take my little girl with me. Then in oct 2007 I had our other son. Then we got our own place. Then we both worked at a prison. He worked from 8a to 4p then I worked 2p to 10p. So we never had time to see each other. Well in dec 2008 we got into a argument and he told me to get out so me and my little girl left. Well he join the army. We had time apart from each other. He got hurt at basic training he came home for 30 days and we spent the whole 30 days together. And I loved every min of it it was like when we first started dating. We have 3 children till this day he still says my little girl is his. He left back out on Sunday and I took the kids to the airport to watch him off and me and my husband was holding each other and I didn't want to let go. Well later on that night he called me and told me that he made it there. Then he asked if I wanted to work everything out and try to fix our marriage. Like I said we been split up since dec. don't get me wrong I would like to fix our marriage. But I am so scaried that he is going tell me get out. What should I do should I try to fix my marriage or go on with the divorce? But I love him and he knows that. b:confused::confused::(

Tell him exactly how you feel. That you love him with all your heart but you are afraid of him starting that behavior over. The best thing would be to wait until he comes home and work on your relationship and make sure he knows that you will not tolerate or stay if the fighting starts again.

You seemed to have some stressors then that maybe when he gets back things might be better.

How are you related to armygirlfriend8?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/children/how-do-deal-children-after-their-daddy-leaves-387068.html

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Have to spread the rep good catch
I thought the story looked too familiar.
There's been quite A LOT of Army wives and gf's on here in the past few days.