I have been dating this girl for over a year and we have for the most part had a great thing going, but I lied to her twice about a girl one was there was a girl I met and she was a good looking girl and I have a custom motorcycle shop so I was talking to her about taking pictures with my custom bikes. And that's the truth but I did nt tell her about the girl and she had called my phone and my girl friend answered it. I was nt sure what to tell my girl friend so I lied and said it was for a friend, then I said the truth but I already lied. I never had the girl take pictures or anything and never spoke after that. Then this march at bike week my girl friend was there with me and we had fun but a couple of months after bike week this girl(another)girl out of the blue emails my shop and said she saw me at bike week and wanted to met me? I was taking back because why me? And I would email her back and forth about things she knew I had a girl friend and was happy but one day not sure why I, in my email said that things were rocky! Never talked to her on the phone or anything but she did try to call me,so one day she calls and again my girl friend answers the phone! Then proceeds to tell her about the emails. This was after I had told the girl I did nt want to email her anymore a few weeks before. So now I lied twice what to do? Then I was at a bike event and was out got back to the room and talked to my girl friend before I went to sleep and kept wanting me to talk but I told her I was going to sleep and I loved her and would talk to her in the morning! And went to sleep so the next day I try to call and she will not talk to me. She thinks I was with another girl and that is why I got off the phone. Very far from the truth what can I do because she still will not talk to me and it has been three weeks. If I did something wrong I could understand but I did n't! I call her every day 5 times a day at least and send cards, flowers what can I do? I love her and don't do anything wrong! What to do?

Give her some time to cool off. When she has had a little time to distance herself from the situation she will more clearly be able to take a logical look at the situation. However, since you lied to her twice and got caught, would it only make sense that she now disbelieves you? It will take time, but I believe that you can build up her trust in you. Just be honest from now on, let no lie enter your conversations with her. And I think that after a few days or so she will talk to you again; that is when you can tell her the truth.

You tell the truth to those you love, my friend. Most women will not date a man who does not tell the truth at all times. So, what I'm saying, in essence, is try to overshadow your past failings with your future successes in your relationship with her.