nabs417
Aug 12, 2009, 03:23 PM
I met this girl last December, she's a family-friend and we've been talking up until last month. She lives in a town a few miles away we've met twice before.
We mostly instant messaged each other and texted each other. I phoned her once and the other times I tried phoning her , but things always came up for her and she couldn't speak. I gave up trying to phone her.
We've become really close over the months and she even started calling me her best friend.well the thing is I wasn't looking to become her best friend I was looking for something more than just friends.
The holidays came up , and I decided to go to the same place she went on holiday. She asked me where I was staying and I told her that we should meet up, she said sure we could. Before I arrive she tells me that she's going to another city to stay with some family, so I don't see any chance of us meeting. The next day after I arrive, I speak to her and she tells me that she is still in the same city and is only going the next day. I tell her we could have met, but she says she's sorry her head wasn't working. I we start arguing cause I think she's lying and I don't speak to her the rest of that night. The next day we don't speak, and that night she's comes back and texts that she's sorry she doesn't like fighting with me, I forgive her.
About 2 days later I ask her if we could meet up at a mall close to where she was staying, she tells me she'l let me know the next day. The next day comes and I don't get any answer , I text her asking her and she says that she can't meet because she has to babysit, but she's going to be at the mall at the same time I'm going to take the kids to a movie. At the mall I text, but she ignores my texts. To get her attention I send her a text to say that I think I saw her, and she replies instantly. The nights over and we don't end up meeting.
Over the next 3 days we speak as normal, but I'm still upset that I was in the same place as her and we couldn't meet. For the next 2 days , she doesn't contact me and just ignores me. The next day I send her a text thanking her for everything and ignoring me, I tell her to enjoy her life. She texts saying that she wasn't ignoring me , she's been busy with things.
I tell her that's she must tell me what she wants, and tell me if I'm wasting my time with her, she tells me that she just wants to be friends and that she's sorry if it seemed that she lead me on, which she did. I wouldn't have told her how I felt about her until we've met again but out of anger everything just came out. I tried many times before trying to stop contact with her but she always came back and wanted my attention.
The next few days I don't speak to her until she texts me and tells me that she still wants to be my best friend and doesn't like the fact that we not talking like how always we used to, we should speak as we did. That night I speak to her as normal.
The next day, I go out with a couple of friends for a movie. I am upset because I'm not getting what I want and I'm making her happy by giving her what she wants to be just friends. That night I text her and tell that I don't want to be her best friend and I don't think we should speak as much we did anymore, we'l keep in touch, she gets angry I tells me I'm being immature. I tell her that I don't want to swear her and tell her goodbye.
I don't speak to her for about a month. I go on Facebook one day and see her on, she ignores me and doesn't say anything. Today she was on again but I greet, she replies normally and asks how I'm doing? And what I'v been up to. I ask her if she's still angry, and she says no . We speak a while until she stops replying, she goes off without saying goodbye or anything. What should I do now? Be friends with her again or continue not speaking to her.
I'm regreting speaking to her again because my feelings for her have returned, and I was doing better off without her as I was moving on. Not sure anymore??
We mostly instant messaged each other and texted each other. I phoned her once and the other times I tried phoning her , but things always came up for her and she couldn't speak. I gave up trying to phone her.
We've become really close over the months and she even started calling me her best friend.well the thing is I wasn't looking to become her best friend I was looking for something more than just friends.
The holidays came up , and I decided to go to the same place she went on holiday. She asked me where I was staying and I told her that we should meet up, she said sure we could. Before I arrive she tells me that she's going to another city to stay with some family, so I don't see any chance of us meeting. The next day after I arrive, I speak to her and she tells me that she is still in the same city and is only going the next day. I tell her we could have met, but she says she's sorry her head wasn't working. I we start arguing cause I think she's lying and I don't speak to her the rest of that night. The next day we don't speak, and that night she's comes back and texts that she's sorry she doesn't like fighting with me, I forgive her.
About 2 days later I ask her if we could meet up at a mall close to where she was staying, she tells me she'l let me know the next day. The next day comes and I don't get any answer , I text her asking her and she says that she can't meet because she has to babysit, but she's going to be at the mall at the same time I'm going to take the kids to a movie. At the mall I text, but she ignores my texts. To get her attention I send her a text to say that I think I saw her, and she replies instantly. The nights over and we don't end up meeting.
Over the next 3 days we speak as normal, but I'm still upset that I was in the same place as her and we couldn't meet. For the next 2 days , she doesn't contact me and just ignores me. The next day I send her a text thanking her for everything and ignoring me, I tell her to enjoy her life. She texts saying that she wasn't ignoring me , she's been busy with things.
I tell her that's she must tell me what she wants, and tell me if I'm wasting my time with her, she tells me that she just wants to be friends and that she's sorry if it seemed that she lead me on, which she did. I wouldn't have told her how I felt about her until we've met again but out of anger everything just came out. I tried many times before trying to stop contact with her but she always came back and wanted my attention.
The next few days I don't speak to her until she texts me and tells me that she still wants to be my best friend and doesn't like the fact that we not talking like how always we used to, we should speak as we did. That night I speak to her as normal.
The next day, I go out with a couple of friends for a movie. I am upset because I'm not getting what I want and I'm making her happy by giving her what she wants to be just friends. That night I text her and tell that I don't want to be her best friend and I don't think we should speak as much we did anymore, we'l keep in touch, she gets angry I tells me I'm being immature. I tell her that I don't want to swear her and tell her goodbye.
I don't speak to her for about a month. I go on Facebook one day and see her on, she ignores me and doesn't say anything. Today she was on again but I greet, she replies normally and asks how I'm doing? And what I'v been up to. I ask her if she's still angry, and she says no . We speak a while until she stops replying, she goes off without saying goodbye or anything. What should I do now? Be friends with her again or continue not speaking to her.
I'm regreting speaking to her again because my feelings for her have returned, and I was doing better off without her as I was moving on. Not sure anymore??