He is married, so am I - I know its wrong yet I have done it before and now I have found out that he has too. We planned to get together, now I think he is having second thoughts. I've been asking him to tell me how he feels and he just says he does not have the time to write yet asks me about my fantasies and stuff like that. I do want him... How do I know for sure that he wants me or just fishing for information about my sexual past. Did I push to far when I asked him how he felt about my responses?

He is married, so am I - I know its wrong yet I have done it before and now I have found out that he has too. We planned to get together, now I think he is having second thoughts. I've been asking him to tell me how he feels and he just says he does not have the time to write yet asks me about my fantasies and stuff like that. I do want him....How do I know for sure that he wants me or just fishing for information about my sexual past. Did I push to far when I asked him how he felt about my responses?
Just wait some time and see how thigs go. Pull back from him a bit and see if he advances if he doesn't then do not pursue him