Im 13 years old and I need help finding a boyfriend or a date but the thing is I think Im a loser because I haven't kissed someone yet and all my friends did so Im embaressed

Don't stress yourself out sweetie. You're so young and have soooooooo much time to have your first kiss. Why are you rushing it?

You're only 13! You have a whole life ahead of you. Don't rush.

Thanks guys! I know but very young for that but I just keep thinking abaut this that I need a boyfriend I see all my friends they are going out with hot guys and I just look at myself and say why I can't be like them!

Im 13 too. I can't wait till my first kiss. I want it to be with the guy I like a lot.

Hi, pavr9634!

In my opinion, the person whom you need to be is you. All these good things will come in time, but you need to be patient and not rush things. Just because all of your friends seem to be doing things that you might not be doing, doesn't mean that you should be doing the same things that they are.

Everyone has feelings of wanting to "belong" to certain groups. But, what groups to belong to or be associated with will depend on the individual person.

A couple of questions for you: What sort of things do you really like to do? Also, what are the things that your really good at doing?

Thanks!

Don't rush it girl. It will come with time, and who knows these girls at their age might not have had a good experience to remember for a first kiss. It might be something that they will want to forget when they are older and know what a real kiss is.
I hope you will wait for your first kiss to be something very memorable. You do not have to be like your friends even though you feel like you should be to fit in. If they are good friends, they shouldn't care if you have kissed a boy or not, they should like you for you.

If all your friends jumped off a bridge, would you? Same thing as saying they are doing it, shouldn't I? You are young with a long life ahead of you, just wait and see if I'm not telling you the truth. In the future, your friends will be jealous of you for waiting, unlike them who are embarrassed for kissing Billy Bob.

The time will come! Good things come to those who wait :) I didn't have my first kiss until I was 17!! Just have fun being you, and if your friends are getting you down about it just tell them that your happy being you and you don't need to be like them just to be happy! :)

Yes! What everyone said!! I didn't have my first kiss until I was 17 and I had many opportunities to have kissed earlier but I just wasn't comfortable...

Someday, you'll meet someone and it will work out... BUT, don't rush it! It will definitely lose its magic if its forced!

13??

Are you serious? I had my first kiss at 17 and nobody thought I was a loser.

Don't be embarrassed, jeesh, kids are growing up far too quick these days, no wonder there are so many teen pregnancies!

My first kiss was 15, no one told me they thought I was a loser.
I sure never felt like one.
I am glad I wasn't thirteen.

You're friends are just talking smack.

Tell them you're waiting for a perfect kiss from a great guy. You don't want to settle for any old junk. :D

Find me one person, in today's society, that is still with their 13 crush. Until then, get over it, and you have plenty of time.

Just as everyone says, you have plenty of time. Focus on your schoolwork. It makes life much easier.

thanks Im happy knowing a girl with 13 years old doesn't kissed yet thnaks you so much letting me now and I think or I know Im stupid what I said it was so stupid Im just 13 years old! I have a whole life to get my first kiss with the guy that I like and my friends are like crazy for going out with random guys and kissing them maybe shouldn't hang out with them but thanks guys for all the advices I feel better now knowing this!! :)

I was the same around your age a little younger and when I look back at my first kiss I just want to forget it because it was with someone I fidnt feel that much for. Trust me you'll know when it's the right time, let him come to you

Man, I was like 17 when I had my first

Actually, despite what people and movies say about how magical kissing is, its quite overated
(or maybe I'm just not doing it right)

My first kiss was at 16. I'm now 18 and still dating the girl I first kissed.

My girlfriend is 16, but I wasn't her first kiss :( but that's okay.

Don't worry about what others think about you. You're young and have plenty of time make sure when you get your first kiss you do it with the person you like a lot, because you will remember it.

Ah, the first kiss. The one you will never forget.

I was 15 when I had my first kiss and it is completely normal. I don't think I had thought much about it at your age.

If you feel this way now, I hope you don't show up here in 2 years saying all my friends have had sex but I haven't. Just slow down and the right time will come.

Thanks guys for all the support and I will wait for my first kiss with the right guy for sure!

Losers are the girls that have a boyfriend by the time they are 13, 14 or 15 and lose their identity trying to please the boys and not thinking for themselves.
Losers are the girls that think a guy, and even a baby, is the answer to their problems.
Losers are the girls that end up on welfare because they just had to have the guy and the baby
Losers are the girls that end up just getting by because they got so caught up in thinking they had to have a guy that they never planned on life goals for themselves.

Hunny don't rush a thing. I was 14 for my first kiss, but he ended up being a jerk! Make sure it's with someone you really like and keep it special :)

Thanks but what's a welfare?

Welfare is what people get on because they can't afford things on their own so they have th government pay for things like food.

Usually the people who get it don't deserve it as much as the ones who really need it.

Oh and to add my sister's first kiss was when she was 18. She is now almost 27 and is still with the same guy and has 3 kids with him.

So you never know.

Never look for a boyfriend because you'll end up settling. Wait for love to find you!!

Don't go rushing things with trying to find someone.

Everybody always told me that love would find me when I wasn't looking. Mostly people here told me that.

Well it really is true. I wasn't looking for a relationship with this one girl and we were like best friends for awhile and that is all I wanted. I had just gotten out of a bad relationship and wasn't ready for more. She wanted more and I just didn't. Well, I gave her the chance and I couldn't have been happier that I did. I am still happy to this day and wouldn't change a thing.

I wasn't looking for love, she was wanting to love me and it did happen. So it dies happen, and no I didn't settle. This girl is perfect in way more ways that one. So I bet your time will come and you will fall in love and get your kiss.

Then you can brag to your friends about actually being in love and kissing the guy you love not just some classmate.

Don't worry about it. Nobody would think you are a loser and if somebody says something then they are not worth your time.
I was 14 when I had my first kiss. It's nothing special or difficult. Wait the time will come alone =)

I was one of those girls who had their first kiss at 12! Yes I know I was young and crazy. Like your friends, I would say "yeah, I already had my first kiss" but it isn't something I cherish today. It was quite odd at that age and is something I wish I would've waited for now that I am 19.

I am glad to hear that you haven't had your first kiss yet. With my bad experience of a first kiss, that I can't seem to forget about, I am stressing to you not to do the same things as your friends are doing. Once you have grown up and matured more you will realize that your choice of waiting was the best idea.