My girlfriend of one year has just left me after a fight. The issue was , she went out to a bar while I was home. Her girlfriend left there and she stayed, talked with and then slow danced with some of the guys. I found out and tolfd her I wasn't comfortable with her out there doing that when Im home in bed. A huge fight followed and I slammed her door after she got into the car. When we made it back to my place, she took all her things, wanted keys back and said she was done. She has since sent email responses saying she's not the girl for me. Im too controlling,moody, jelouse, suspicious, sarcastic... Iwant to know if she will , after the anger dies down. Possibly miss the good stuff and want to at least try one more time? Do I have any chance at all of her ever letting me back in?

I really don't think anyone here is in a position to predict what this girl is thinking or whether she would ever come back.

It does seem, based on her messages, that this is not the first time something like this has happened. Sounds as if this has been brewing for awhile now. I say that because the fight as you described it usually would not end in a walk out if everything else about the relationship was fine and dandy. For now I'd heed her advice.

Worry about dealing with your anger issues for now and let her cool her jets. Will she come back? No idea... it doesn't look good, but the least you could do is try and change your insecurities (or learn to communicate a with more tact) so this doesn't happen again.