I am having these feelings for our youth PASTOR.I can se that he likes me too because recently he kissed me, and told me that he wants to marry me. What am worried about is that He is 13 years older and the church might refuse or his family. I really love him and don't want to be hurt.

Please help

How old are you? He s abusing his position or at least that's my take on it.

Am 20 , I know that he might be abusing his right but I love him or so I feel that way .

Age to me is just a number, when God blesses us he doesn't look at age or where we from but rather at how we have been seeking his glory and worshipping him.

You asked if this is love or lust-you are still quite young and you are in correct me if Im using the wrong phrase here in his pastoral care so my opinion is that what he s doing is not right.how do you know that this isn't something he s making a habit of doing?I d say lust love doesn't confuse if its true.

How do you still have a youth pastor at the age of 20?

If you are 20 years old, I believe that you would be grown up to understand your feelings and the implications of starting a relationship with a pastor from your church.

Age may be just a number, but lust is not. I would be going very slowly, with eyes open on this one. Rushing into something all starry eyed, will get you hurt for sure. How long has this been going on?