Wanted to find the name of a film I saw a few years back,

The heroes family is killed in a brutal shootout at his beach residence. His wife who is / was pregnant is also killed, he is injured critically and is washed ashore..

He later surfaces in a city stays at a non descript apartment, with strange / weird tenants, which includes a pizza eating fat guy, a gal..

He is a recluse, drinks heavly and slowly gets his revenge in a violent revenge saga..

All I remember is the hero is well built, muscular, lots of action, and shootouts

I would say this is "The Punisher"
The Punisher (2004) (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0330793/)