god_forgivs_all
Aug 2, 2009, 05:47 AM
Hello everybody,
well i m here struggling with this same sex attraction thing.i tried a lot to overcome this because i know its not logical as well it develops so much inferiority in you if you are attracted towards the same sex.
i was in a relation for last 6 years and i want to get over this relation as i feel that its hindering me to overcome this sexuality problem of mine.i don't stay in contact with this grl bu i dont know why she wont leave my head.she is not into any long term commitment type.she just wants to carry this relation as long it goes smoothly.well i just got over her and was able to bring back my life on a normal pace.
i am in college and the worse that has happened with me is that i had a girl with whom i always discussed my problems.we were just friends until the day came that i started to realise that i was bowled over by this girl.i couldnt face her and started feeling uncomfortable in her presence.i couldnt face her.whenever i was somewhere i always searched for her and when i saw her ,started to pretend as if she wasnt around.
i fell in love with her deeply.and i thought it was again going to not let me get over.othen we started ignoring each other and i thought she did it because it was me who was behaving so wierdly.but then later on one day we just met formally and in usual conversation i told her how much i loved her and was attached to her.
out of the blue she told me that she felt the same for me...not again..now i don't know how to overcome this same sex problem as i can't leave her cos she is my best friend and we are study mates as well..........should i tell her that i am lesbian and ask her to help my way out as what she says is that she has no same sex attraction.but i think she has..
should i tell her that i am lesbian and ask for her help as i love her very much
please help me...
:(:(:(:confused:
well i m here struggling with this same sex attraction thing.i tried a lot to overcome this because i know its not logical as well it develops so much inferiority in you if you are attracted towards the same sex.
i was in a relation for last 6 years and i want to get over this relation as i feel that its hindering me to overcome this sexuality problem of mine.i don't stay in contact with this grl bu i dont know why she wont leave my head.she is not into any long term commitment type.she just wants to carry this relation as long it goes smoothly.well i just got over her and was able to bring back my life on a normal pace.
i am in college and the worse that has happened with me is that i had a girl with whom i always discussed my problems.we were just friends until the day came that i started to realise that i was bowled over by this girl.i couldnt face her and started feeling uncomfortable in her presence.i couldnt face her.whenever i was somewhere i always searched for her and when i saw her ,started to pretend as if she wasnt around.
i fell in love with her deeply.and i thought it was again going to not let me get over.othen we started ignoring each other and i thought she did it because it was me who was behaving so wierdly.but then later on one day we just met formally and in usual conversation i told her how much i loved her and was attached to her.
out of the blue she told me that she felt the same for me...not again..now i don't know how to overcome this same sex problem as i can't leave her cos she is my best friend and we are study mates as well..........should i tell her that i am lesbian and ask her to help my way out as what she says is that she has no same sex attraction.but i think she has..
should i tell her that i am lesbian and ask for her help as i love her very much
please help me...
:(:(:(:confused: