My ex girlfriend, she's a bit strange, she thinks were on like a break or something. And she just so happened to bump into my girlfriend at the mall and they got to be friends and stuff.
Any way tonight they all had a drink up at my exs and my girlfriend was there, and now I've found out that my ex has gone further with my girlfriend in a space of 4 hours then I have since our four month anv. Last week.

I'm really cut and I think I over reacted but if any one can tell me what do to I would love you for over!!
Please hurry I don't care how bad or good the advice is just post it up fast Please because I'm really stuck and I need some help
Thanks

Now I've found out that my ex has gone further with my girlfriend in a space of 4 hours then I have since our four month anv. Last week.

What do you mean by that?
Sexually
Or turning her against you
Or what?

Sexcually, I wanted to take things slow.
Not like all my other relationships and I haven't seen my girlfriend naked nothing all I've done is hook up and stuff, and I find out that my ex is licking my girlfriend out. Her excuse " it was a dare" and before it " it was only a joke"

all ive done is hook up and stuff

Please, stop with the slang/text talk and just say what you mean. As far as I ever new, "hook up" meant have sex, usually a one night stand. However, if you are "taking it slow" and haven't even seen her nude, then what do you mean?


i think i over reacted

Well, how did you react?

If your "girlfriend" is doing these things with someone, your ex (whether she knows it or not) then she is not looking for a committed relationship. If you are trying to get a good girl to have a quality relationship with, then she is not for you, plain and simple.

There is never any excuse for what she is doing drunk, dare, a joke or whatever.
It shows how lightly she takes sex that she can do things as a joke.
How would you feel if the joke/dare was for her to mess around with a few guys all at the same time.
So your ex got further with her so that should tell you something...
FIND another girlfriend!