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john0781
Jul 30, 2009, 12:44 PM
Okay, so there's this girl lets call her jamie who is a great friend of mine
And we were real close
But I started dateing this other girl and kind of stopped talking to jamie
Not intentionally like I never saw her and ignored her or anything like that I just didn't text her as much and stuff because I felt it would be a d move since I was dateing another girl yeah know,
But anyway me and the girl who I was dateing broke up
And now when ever I try texting jamie I notice that she just wants to cut the conversation short and stuff and it just makes me sad because I really like her and I just want
To know how am I supposed to get her to talk to me like actually talk to me
Right now I'm just not talking because I don't want to bother her or anything until I have the perfect thing to say if you know what I mean.
And I don't know if that is the reason she's not talking to me
I'm just confused.
Please help!

kctiger
Jul 30, 2009, 01:11 PM
So you cut Jamie off because you met a new girl and now that you broke up with the new girl you expect Jamie to just welcome you with open arms? Dream on playa! It doesn't work like that.

miss 226
Jul 30, 2009, 01:35 PM
Have you tried talking to "Jamie" about the problem?

If you guys had a close relationship them maybe you should mention to her that you been feeling like she doesn't have the same relationship with you.

Or maybe she liked you more than just a friend, and when you started dating another girl there was a little silent jealousy.

You can't make someone feel for you, and have the best relationship with you. Relationships take a lot of time and work. Try to be the bigger person. Keep contact with her, talk to her make fun plans together, and try to get that relationship back.

And if things don't work out that's OK too, friends come and go.

=]
good luck!

john0781
Jul 30, 2009, 05:05 PM
Thanks :)