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Lifeless
Jul 30, 2009, 11:40 AM
My spouse and I moved 14 times in our marriage and we are getting ready to move again which makes 15 times. We have only been together in all 13 years. I am so tired of moving I don't know what I should do. I am not working right now and can't afford to move because I am in debt and I feel trapped. If I don't go with him I mind as well say I am homeless. I don't know what to do anymore. I am so drained what should I do Help!
N0help4u
Jul 30, 2009, 12:07 PM
Why do you move so much is it a consistent reason that you might be able to find a solution to?
I know I moved a lot because of being too poor. I think I moved my 4 kids at least
8 times in 14 years. If the reason is his work then there isn't too much you can do other than him finding a different job.
Why aren't you working? Like can you get a job?
For this time I don't see much difference in moving again or being homeless because its not like you can stay put is it?
I would move to the best place you can afford and hope you don't have to move again.
88sunflower
Jul 30, 2009, 12:10 PM
If your having to move so much because of his job, then with this economy be happy he has a job. I guess we need to hear more the reasons your moving so much. Do you have children? I would hope not. Maybe if there are no solid reasons for moving so much you should talk it over with him.