My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for about 2 years. When we first met we have a very intense sexual attraction to each other. He could make me climax just by touching me... we didn't even have to have sex.(And No he was not my first). We ended up splitting up at roughly the 3 month mark, and stayed separated for approximately 6 months... but with our feelings the way they were, we got back together and have been together ever since.

When we got back together we had a lot of issues with trust, but the sexual attraction was still there.

Well, for about the last 6 months, we haven't been having sex very much. We will play around a bit, and I'll give him oral... but it seems like he has absolutely no interest in pleasing me anymore.

Recently, he came to me and said he didn't think he was sexually attracted to me anymore. He said he loves me more than anything, and I feel the same about him. He said he was struggling with this for a while, but couldn't figure out how we could such strong feelings for each other, but not be sexually attracted to me at all anymore.

For a little background info, I am his longest relationship, except for his previous marriage of 4 years. Which ended when she cheated on him. We have worked out a lot of our issues, and this seems to be the only thing left.

Please help!!

He has a shallow love then that will not last.
IF he can't love you through thick and thin then he doesn't know what love is. Love is commitment. What if every couple broke up because the other in their eyes was no longer attractive to them?
You have to have a bond deeper than attraction or else I'd say you are better off without him

He is telling you how he feels, it's time to move on!

Sounds like lust to me not love. You had a passionate love affair, it was fun. Move on now.

Yes since in your other post he is saying he wants you to be with another guy while he is present I would say it is time to dump him.
He doesn't love you he is looking for lust.
When lust wears off they want to spice it up.
Don't do these things to keep any guy. He's not worth it.

He has no respect for you

Whether it be love or lust, I don't know. When a guy says they are no longer attracted to you, then you know what they are saying is the relationship is about over.
I had to go read the "theesome" thing that "no help" was referring to. He is trying, it seems, to come up with a reason to ge you out of his life, and if you agree to have sex with someone ELSE, he can say "you cheated", and look like the good guy when he dumps you.
Time to get moving!

What you feel is lust, not love. Take this as a wake up call, he just isn't that into you. You CAN do better. And you should.