ewhitlock83
Jul 28, 2009, 06:39 AM
I'm sorry, this really has nothing to do with a specific question, but I just wanted to throw some randomness out into the world.
WHY IN GODS NAME IS DATING SO FRICKIN COMPLICATED??
Why can't people just be honest about how they feel? What are we so scared of? Yes getting hurt sucks, we all know this. But we have also ALL been hurt once in our pasts, and come on, did it kill us? No! We moved on, we got over it. Broken hearts don't last forever, despite the sometimes emo responses people have to getting hurt, myself included.
Just think about this. How many people are there in the world? Okay, how many of the opposite sex (or same if that is your preference)? Why do we worry so much that that one specific person will shoot us down? I believe in love, don't get me wrong. But I ALSO believe that there is the possibility for love with MILLIONS of people out there. I do NOT believe in "The One". There isn't just one person out there for us. There's the one person we eventually end up with, yes, but think of it this way. If you had never met your current spouse, do you really believe you would have wound up alone?! NO!! You would have met someone else that you were compatible with, and wound up with them! So what are we scared of??
Sorry, just some random questions to throw out into the void. If you feel like responding feel free, if not, and if you have dating issues, I just hope you think about what I wrote.
WHY IN GODS NAME IS DATING SO FRICKIN COMPLICATED??
Why can't people just be honest about how they feel? What are we so scared of? Yes getting hurt sucks, we all know this. But we have also ALL been hurt once in our pasts, and come on, did it kill us? No! We moved on, we got over it. Broken hearts don't last forever, despite the sometimes emo responses people have to getting hurt, myself included.
Just think about this. How many people are there in the world? Okay, how many of the opposite sex (or same if that is your preference)? Why do we worry so much that that one specific person will shoot us down? I believe in love, don't get me wrong. But I ALSO believe that there is the possibility for love with MILLIONS of people out there. I do NOT believe in "The One". There isn't just one person out there for us. There's the one person we eventually end up with, yes, but think of it this way. If you had never met your current spouse, do you really believe you would have wound up alone?! NO!! You would have met someone else that you were compatible with, and wound up with them! So what are we scared of??
Sorry, just some random questions to throw out into the void. If you feel like responding feel free, if not, and if you have dating issues, I just hope you think about what I wrote.