How am I going to get a girlfriend if I can't drive a car? I can't pass the test to get my permit anyway and my Doctor says I can't drive due to poor Judgment so How am I going to get a girlfriend?

Sounds like you have bigger issues then getting a girlfriend...

Can you elaborate on why a Doctor would tell you your poor judgement is going to keep you from getting a license?

How old are you?

Have you taken Driver's Education? I don't recall a test to get your permit, but if there was one, it was prepared for in Driver's Education. Where do you live?

If a girl doesn't want to be bother with you because you don't have a car then guess what? You don't need her.

You must have did some stupid stuff for a doctor to tell you what he told you.

Also, Justwantfair in New York you have to take a written test to get your permit. Then once you get your permit you have to enroll in a 5 hour class(5 hours about driving safe). Then you can schedule a road test or go to a driving school if you need to. At least that is the way it is in the City.

Broken, how old are you?

Justy, here in Tenn the kiddos take a computerized test to get their permit, they drive for a year then take the road test for their license. Drivers Ed is offered here, but not through the schools like it used to be, and is extremely expensive.

Same here, computerized test, then at least one year of supervised driving.

Drivers ed isn't a necessity but your insurance premium will be lower if you take the course.

I'm confused about the diagnosis your doctor gave you. How does someone test for poor judgement?

What kind of "poor judgment" is your doctor referring to? And why can't you pass the test for your permit? But, all of that aside, you'll just have to have your girlfriend do all the driving in her car lol! But seriously, no girl who's worth the time of day from you is going to care whether you have a driver's license. You can attract plenty of women, even without a driver's license.

You sound like you are probably young, permit age is generally 15 - 16, at least around here, so I'll let you in on a little hint.

The stuff you see on T.V. shows, where all high school girls think driving is sexy and a man that can drive is so much hotter, it's just T.V.

For most girls it really doesn't matter that much and like Liz said if the girl does only care about a car then why even bother?

What kind of "poor judgment" is your doctor referring to? And why can't you pass the test for your permit? But, all of that aside, you'll just have to have your girlfriend do all the driving in her car lol! But seriously, no girl who's worth the time of day from you is going to care whether or not you have a driver's license. You can attract plenty of women, even without a driver's license.

Poor Judgment means I do not have the ability to make a Quick Decision poor Judgment also involves Distance negotiating while driving down one way streets with cars parked on both sides I might hit one of them I can't stay focused on Driving cause you can get easily distracted.


Same here, computerized test, then at least one year of supervised driving.

Drivers ed isn't a necessity but your insurance premium will be lower if you take the course.

I'm confused about the diagnosis your doctor gave you. How does someone test for poor judgement? it's a Doctors objectivity they know if you may be able to drive a car or not.


Sounds like you have bigger issues then getting a girlfriend...

Can you elaborate on why a Doctor would tell you your poor judgement is going to keep you from getting a license?

How old are you?

Have you taken Driver's Education? I don't recall a test to get your permit, but if there was one, it was prepared for in Driver's Education. Where do you live? I have mild mental retardation does this answer your Question?

I'm not sure that mild mental retardation is your problem cause it sure doesn't show in your posts, but what do I know.

Other skills can be lacking like co-ordination.

My suggestion. Video games, pure and simple. Just don't give up. A little each day.

Are you out in the rural areas and have no other way to get around?
Isn't there anything you can get involved with like social groups or hobbies where you could meet girls.
Not all girls need a guy that have a car. Some girls will even be willing to drive you.

Hope you can come up with something to help your situation

Same way kids dated long before cars, or find a girlfriend with a car.

First of all I would ask for a rational doctor and next I would have someone tutor me on the driving test. Who told you that you have to agree with the doctor? You are you, an individual, and can observe and decide things for yourself. You can make friends who have a car and double date. I would never go out with a girl that thought I had to have a car to date her. Find a girl who likes you for being you and could care less if you do not own a car...

My husband has moderate mental retardation(the non-specific type. No specific disorder or dysfunction)

He has never gotten a license. And due to poor judgement and bad 'quick decision' skills, he probably would also not be able to get a license (though he has never tried, nor does he want to)

And he managed to catch me ;)

Driving is not everything. If a woman won't date you because you can't drive, you are better off without her, and she is not worth your time.

Also, remmeber, the chances of you finding a life partner at this time in your life are slim. Focus on having fun and being a kid. The love and romance can wait till later ;)

And remember, I totally did not mind picking my husband up in my car when he was my boyfriend. And when you find that right special girl, she won't mind either :)

Sounds like you have bigger issues then getting a girlfriend...

Can you elaborate on why a Doctor would tell you your poor judgement is going to keep you from getting a license?

How old are you?

Have you taken Driver's Education? I don't recall a test to get your permit, but if there was one, it was prepared for in Driver's Education. Where do you live? he's worried that I'll get into an Accident or accidentally hit a parked car.

my husband has moderate mental retardation(the non-specific type. no specific disorder or dysfunction)

he has never gotten a liscense. and due to poor judgement and bad 'quick decision' skills, he probably would also not be able to get a liscense (though he has never tried, nor does he want to)

and he managed to catch me ;)

driving is not everything. if a woman wont date you because you can't drive, you are better off without her, and she is not worth your time.

also, remmeber, the chances of you finding a life partner at this time in your life are slim. focus on having fun and being a kid. the love and romance can wait till later ;)

and remember, i totally did not mind picking my husband up in my car when he was my boyfriend. and when you find that right special girl, she wont mind either :)

Right on that's why my Doctor won't let me have a license poor decision skills aka not quick enough to make a Decision Judging Distance and other things.

Are you out in the rural areas and have no other way to get around?
Isn't there anything you can get involved with like social groups or hobbies where you could meet girls.
Not all girls need a guy that have a car. Some girls will even be willing to drive you.

Hope you can come up with something to help your situation me too.

I'm not sure that mild mental retardation is your problem cause it sure doesn't show in your posts, but what do I know.

Other skills can be lacking like co-ordination.

My suggestion. Video games, pure and simple. Just don't give up. A little each day. it's so mild that if you talked to me in person you wouldn't even notice it.

Broken, how old are you?

I'm shy when it comes to introducing myself to the female hot Russian lifeguard what should I do what's your advice?

A little bit more information would be helpful!

Don't over think the conversation. Go up to her with NO expectations. Talk with her and look at her as a possible friend instead of a possible GF.

Be confident.

That's about it. Let your fear and anxiety work for you, not against you.

That was the most eye catching title ever. Please tell me it's for a book and tell me where I can go buy it. /drool. I'd be shy too if I saw a chick described like that. And I am a GIRL. Hahahaha

Clearly, you've never seen "The Sandlot".

Pay close attention to Squints in that film, it'll show you what you need to do.

what should I do what's your advice?Hello B:

Jump in the water and start floundering around. The two of you will meet in the center of the pool. It's going to be romantic, too because she's going to hug you right off the bat.

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What kind of Candy should I buy a 19 year old female? I bought this person bags of Candy did I make a mistake? Please answer ASAP

What kind of candy did you buy?

Why did you buy her candy?

Does she like candy?

What's her favorite candy?

Why bags of candy? That's pretty odd! How old are you?

What kind of candy did you buy?

Why did you buy her candy?

Does she like candy?

What's her favorite candy? Skittles wild berry, some Regular Skittles,reese's pieces. That's what I purchased for this person did I make a mistake?

Why did you buy the candy! I'm sure she will like it! Just not romantic.. if that is what you were looking for!

why bags of candy? thats pretty odd! how old are you? I'm 19 and she is 19 let me guess I made a mistake?

Well if you are buddies and they wre hungry, fine

If they are a girl you like and you wanted to impress them, Not unless you are 12

why did you buy the candy! I'm sure she will like it! just not romantic..if that is what you were looking for! oh thanks I feel worse than before. Just great

So it wa supposed to be romantic? No not a mistake. She will take it as a sweet gesture! Never a mistake, you just may not get the reaction you are looking for. Add some flowers, don't have to buy you can pick your own! That would be very nice. You can put the candy in a nice gift bag!

so it wa supposed to be romantic? No not a mistake. she will take it as a sweet gesture! never a mistake, you just may not get the reaction you are looking for. add some flowers, don't have to buy you can pick your own! that would be very nice. you can put the candy in a nice gift bag! yes it was but in your opinion did I make a mistake?

Yep!

Well, I thin it as nice sweet detail, mostly if she told that is her favorite andy or something like that. Candy with a little letter or card would aheve ake itbeter, honestly if the guy I like gave me my favorite candy just because I would really like the gesture.

Well you can probably fix the mistake if it was suppose to be romantic and she likes you back buy a basket and a stuffed animal and fill the basket. Take the candy out of the bags and put them around the stuffed animal.
If she is your girlfriend buy those valentine heart candies with the sayings. Maybe even include some scented voitive candles.

You can't just go to the grocery and pick something up from the aisle. Try something like a giant swirly lollipop or gumballs, maybe get her foreign candy like that aerowaves or asian ginger gum(I assume they have that)

Romantic? No. Sweet? Yes.

You know her better then we do. Will she like it?

Is she materialistic? Does she expect guys to spend a lot of money on her?

Personally, to me, it's the thought that counts.

But it's really not romantic.

Send me the candy, buy her a stuffed bear.

Fixed. :)

I'm shy when it comes to introducing myself to the female hot Russian lifeguard what should I do what's your advice?

Uhhh... who's "the" hot Russian lifeguard?

uhhh...who's "the" hot Russian lifeguard? her name is Ana

The candy is only a mistake if you don't follow it up with some conversation to get her to know you better, and then you can see if she likes doing things you like to do. A car won't help you get a date, but good conversation will. Just be yourself, and be friendly, and ask her some questions about herself. Who knows, she may pick you up, in her car, and want to hang out with you. Its worth a shot, just be yourself.

I will add sometign here that isn't like what everone else said...

Some girls DO enjoy getting candy at all ages. I know I still do. No mater what kind of candy. Hubby brings me whoppers all the time ;) and I love it.


It depends on the girl hon. It could go both ways

How am I going to get a girlfriend if I can't drive a car? I can't pass the test to get my permit anyway and my Doctor says I can't drive due to poor Judgment so How am I going to get a girlfriend? Okay Thanks 4 all of the Advice you guys can kindly stop answering I've gotten all the advice I need and as far as this lifeguard thing is somebody is going to be helping me out with that Thank you for all the wonderful advice apparently the female Russian lifeguard wants to date me that's what I'm hearing.