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gendoc
Jul 26, 2009, 01:45 PM
I have recently begun living with my boyfriend of 18 months and although we are both young, healthy, fit people his interest in sex has become almost non-existent. We have a very open and loving relationship and are extremely comfortable talking about our issues. We have discussed our sex life and why he feels the way he does and he assures me that he is still sexually attracted to me but that he just doesn't feel any drive for sex anymore.
His constant rejection of my sexual advances is affecting myself esteem and I no longer feel desirable.
What could be causing this loss of libido? Is there anything I can do to help him?

modernromance09
Jul 26, 2009, 05:10 PM
Get him noxycut.
Supposedly that's the reason my ex boyfriend has sex with his new girlfriend and didn't with me ha.

s_cianci
Jul 26, 2009, 06:01 PM
He may be suffering from Erectile Dysfunction or similar disorder and be too embarrassed to discuss it with you. But if that's the case then he should see a doctor. There are treatments available.

jenniepepsi
Jul 26, 2009, 11:43 PM
Noxycut is a weightloss pill. I don't see how this would help.

Has there been any major changes in his life other than you moving in? A loss in the family, a move, loss of a job, more bills, etc. anything?

Depression can be a huge factor in sexual drive.

Your boyfriend obviously loves you, perhapes if you see a sexual therepist, and talk with them about it?

But please do not just go to drugs or pills ;)

Gemini54
Jul 27, 2009, 01:05 AM
Clearly there is something wrong.

I would suggest that you both need to visit your doctor, firstly to ensure that there is nothing physical which is affecting his libido, and secondly to get a referral to a sex therapist so that you can honestly discuss the reasons for his declining interest and unpack what is happening in the relationship.


he assures me that he is still sexually attracted to me but that he just doesn't feel any drive for sex anymore

This statement is an oxymoron - how can he be sexually attracted to you but not feel like having sex? Doesn't make sense!

Something else is going on - seek professional help and find out what it is.

modernromance09
Jul 27, 2009, 02:58 PM
noxycut is a weightloss pill. i dont see how this would help.

has there been any major changes in his life other than you moving in? a loss in the family, a move, loss of a job, more bills, ect. anything?

depression can be a huge factor in sexual drive.

your boyfriend obviously loves you, perhapes if you see a sexual therepist, and talk with them about it?

but please do not just go to drugs or pills ;)

Does NOXYCUT Have any Negative Side Effects?

No, unless you’re ultra sensitive to stimulants -- If you are don’t take it. But NOXYCUT has some “Positive Side Effects” of increasing your sex drive, enhancing the Size of ALL Your “Muscles”, and improving your sense of well being and motivation.

Got that from the official noxycut website.

autumnrainful
Jul 27, 2009, 03:54 PM
Do you love each other? Has he had sex before? And have you guys intimate in other ways, like oral?
If he never had sex before, pressure is understandable. If there is a chance you could stay alone in a good private place, like a hotel room, things might get better. You could start from oral sex.

s_cianci
Jul 27, 2009, 04:05 PM
got that from the official noxycut websiteAnd you don't think that maybe that's all just a little bit of propaganda to sing the praises of noxycut from a not-so-objective point of view? Wouldn't your doctor or pharmacist probably be a more reliable source of information about a drug rather than the drug's own "official website?"

jenniepepsi
Jul 27, 2009, 04:07 PM
Does NOXYCUT Have any Negative Side Effects?

No, unless you’re ultra sensitive to stimulants -- If you are don’t take it. But NOXYCUT has some “Positive Side Effects” of increasing your sex drive, enhancing the Size of ALL Your “Muscles”, and improving your sense of well being and motivation.

got that from the official noxycut website.

OK first of all hon, a penis is not a muscle. It is an organ. Whoever told you it was a muscle, was full of it. There aren't muscles, it grows due to an increase in bloodflow.

Noxycut may help because it does increase bloodflow, and raise your metabolism, which can increase your bloodpressure.

However, using any type of medication for OFF use, (off use meaning NOT the medications original intent as per the FDA) can be dangerous for your health. And it is not advisable.

Alty
Jul 27, 2009, 04:11 PM
Does NOXYCUT Have any Negative Side Effects?

No, unless you’re ultra sensitive to stimulants -- If you are don’t take it. But NOXYCUT has some “Positive Side Effects” of increasing your sex drive, enhancing the Size of ALL Your “Muscles”, and improving your sense of well being and motivation.

got that from the official noxycut website.

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Do not advise people to take medication on this site!

Synnen
Jul 27, 2009, 04:19 PM
Please stay on topic.

This is not a question about Noxycut, but about the OPs relationship

Alty
Jul 27, 2009, 04:20 PM
Please stay on topic.

This is not a question about Noxycut, but about the OPs relationship

Sorry Synn, I just wanted to point out that this drug is not safe and shouldn't be recommended to anyone.

I'll go back in my corner now. :o

modernromance09
Jul 28, 2009, 12:10 AM
I was just saying that my ex tried it and said it definitely increased his sex drive and even made him last longer and he's not the type to just make something like that up. But I had no idea this was a dangerous pill so sorry for bringing it up without knowing absolutely everything about it it was just my first thought. But if everything else in your relationship is good then definitely bring him to the doctor that's the only thing you really can do to fix the problem.