My step by step break-up guide has served as a practical solution for a lot of folks. The thing is, is how does one log the days they need to in order to get over the "hump"...
I am compiling a list which will hopefully help you get through NC like a champ and fill that space for you!

Hang in there...

Best,

Ash

Ash, I have a thread here. Tecnically I broke up the last time, mostly due to impacience and frustration. I regret that now, and am NC for 6 weeks. However, we are in touch a little over some business excuse. Is NC also apropiate for me? When can I give her a call?

SILENCE IS GOLDEN.
Women understand it. If she has something to say more than business she will. I think you all have good chemistry but not good compatibility. The most common reason for relationship problems... she may not be right for you. If you have something to say wait at at least 6 months. Sorry, but sporadic communication in a broken relationship (3 break ups) will not ease your issues, but just make them last. You both need to step back.

See my "things to do while in NC" guide I am entering today.