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amencer
Jul 22, 2009, 07:16 AM
Hi I'm terry

I broke up with my ex about 2 week ago
When we together we told each other other people we were attactive to
About two days after the brake up I went around to my friends house and the girl I told my ex I liked walked in with a friend I didn't flirt with her or anything because I still had to deep of feelings for my ex so about after 5 hours of been at my friends I went home I got a phone call from my ex saying I slept with her an she was shouting its only been 24 hours and your ing toher girls shows how much you love me I told her I didn't.

My ex's best friend just recently broke up about 1 week before we did and she tell my ex that I have been flirting with her and asking her for sex which is totally untrue

My ex rings me again saying I been trying to her best friend

Anyway I decided to out around town with some friends for a good night (I got told you have go to be around your friends and family after a serious break up) so I did we went up town it was a good night we stayed out to about 6 in the morning

My ex rings me saying I been slagging it around town. I said I went out for a drink we my friends you told me to be around my friends if we ever broke up

Couple of days later she rings me asking to go around (so I went around) we got talking and laffing like old times the funny times we end up getting close and I end up hold her and I go down on her which she always loved (I start holding her again and I say to her ask me any thing ill tell you the truth so she asked about that girl I was attactived to and her best friends I said I never said anything to them.


Any in the morning her best friend walks in I was under the covers and SAYS to my ex that she seen her ex out all last night at a club and I picked up a girl and took her to my place I get up from under the covers and say you lying dirty my ex just says don't talk to her like that it may just been a mistake.


Sometimes I go around to where she lives because I'm friends with her sisters my ex walks in and says she got a new date with a guy I know (he is a bum doesn't work smokes weed all the time )


Week later) I go around trying to make up )

Then ever time I try talk to her she starts been funny coming out with funny things I ask her if she wants to do something she just says go shag some dirty slag like you did at your friends

That's all I'm saying I'm getting upset about her she doesn't know how much I love her and will not let me show her

prttynpnk1105
Jul 22, 2009, 10:48 AM
You should try to tell her how much you love her and if she doesn't want you or doesn't want to be with you anymore go about your own business and find someone new. If her friend or anyone else tries to say you were doing this and that then just ask why do you care... your single :)

talaniman
Jul 22, 2009, 01:18 PM
Remove yourself from this situation, her immature, and impulsiveness behavior, is a sign of not being willing to talk calmly, and rationally. It's a big red flag, when her girls, or anyone else for that matter, can drive a wedge between you. If you have done nothing wrong, then who is acting badly?? You, or her?

amencer
Jul 22, 2009, 04:57 PM
You should try to tell her how much you love her and if she doesn't want you or doesn't want to be with you anymore go about your own business and find someone new. If her friend or anyone else tries to say you were doing this and that then just ask why do you care.....your single :)

OK thanks for reply
But every time I try speak to her she gets mad at me saying wwhy are you been the past up we are other then she brings the past up but trying to been funny about it and when I get pissed off she she says I got to grow up an then says we are having a laugh

I just been talking to my mum about it and she said just go out and enjoy yourself take your mind off it an stay away from her and if she loves you and realise what she as done she will get in touch