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userdoright
Jul 18, 2009, 05:47 PM
Man I can't stop looking at porn I love it so much.Everyday I got to masturbate everyday.How do I stop.
jmjoseph
Jul 18, 2009, 05:51 PM
If you REALLY want to stop, you've got to have willpower. Find something else to do with your spare time. If it's that bad, they have support groups.
PornAddictsAnonymous.org, Porn Addicts Anonymous (http://pornaddictsanonymous.org/)
Stay away from your computer for a day or two. Good luck to you.
userdoright
Jul 18, 2009, 05:53 PM
If you REALLY want to stop, you've got to have willpower. Find something else to do with your spare time. If it's that bad, they have support groups.
PornAddictsAnonymous.org, Porn Addicts Anonymous (http://pornaddictsanonymous.org/)
Stay away from your computer for a day or two. Good luck to you.
Man it's that bad.Like I find myself doing one thing and then I'm looking at porn.
jmjoseph
Jul 18, 2009, 06:13 PM
How old are you?
userdoright
Jul 18, 2009, 06:57 PM
How old are you?
30 years!
jmjoseph
Jul 18, 2009, 07:05 PM
Dude, you need to go to the meetings. It's anonymous, free, and should be close to you. At least go and check it out. You are powerless over your addiction, right? I'm an alcoholic/addict, in full recovery, and I am in the same type program. It will change your life for the better. It's bad enough for you to write in, so just go check it out, get some literature, get a sponsor. You are addicted. You want help. I gave you the source. GO. Go get better so you can carry on with your life. It probably consumes your every thought, all day long. You are a slave to it. Go free yourself.
talaniman
Jul 18, 2009, 07:19 PM
You need help and support, and get rid of the porn. Stay off the computer. Click the link JM provided.
Fr_Chuck
Jul 18, 2009, 07:22 PM
I would say to just get hold of yourself but that appears to be the problem.
But if you want to stop, you just don't do it, get involved in other things, put blockers on your computer if needed.
userdoright
Jul 18, 2009, 08:16 PM
I would say to just get hold of yourself but that appears to be the problem.
But if you want to stop, you just don't do it, get involved in other things, put blockers on your computer if needed.
Man I try to do other things.Its not bad to where I would harm someone.I do it when I'm alone and in a self place.But it's like I can't wait to be alone so I can look at it.Man it's crazy.It took me some time to just get the fact that I'm a porn addiction.
jmjoseph
Jul 18, 2009, 08:25 PM
Admitting you have a problem is the first step. Now what are you going to do? Go get help.If you are embarrassed about going to the " porn addicts" meetings( you shouldn't be) then go to an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting and see what the twelve steps are all about. You just substitute your porn addiction for alcohol. You don't have to talk, just listen. Sit back and LISTEN. Your addiction will only get WORSE if you don't seek help. You have the answer, just go. GOD bless you my friend. Let us know how it goes.
talaniman
Jul 18, 2009, 08:26 PM
Now that you know, get the right help, Google porn addicts, and find what you need to help you.
maureeeen
Jul 21, 2009, 04:20 AM
You don't want to stop if you did you could stop with some hesitation & just watch porn here n there you just need to smash your computer there is a awsum world out there once you get past the computer
smoothy
Jul 21, 2009, 05:24 AM
Well, getting a uselull hobby to distract yourself (sports would be a good one as an example) and give you something else to do would be a good start.
userdoright
Jul 22, 2009, 10:52 PM
you dont want to stop if you did you could stop with some hesitation & just watch porn here n there you just need to smash your computer there is a awsum world out there once you get past the computer
Wow like I know there is a world out there.
LJDK
Jul 23, 2009, 03:15 AM
Install a parental control utility on every computer you use. Open notepad
Type a crazy random numbers password.
Copy and paste it into parental control utility. Delete the file so you won't remember it or can look for it.
Now all you have to do is not to uninstall the utility. And then delete all your porn. If you feel the urge, masturbate using your fantasy instead of porn.
Worked for me.
artlady
Aug 14, 2009, 01:55 AM
I would say to just get hold of yourself but that appears to be the problem.
But if you want to stop, you just don't do it, get involved in other things, put blockers on your computer if needed.
This is a real addiction for many people and it seriously interferes with their daily life. Your levity is a cheap shot at someone's else's problem.
artlady
Aug 14, 2009, 01:57 AM
you dont want to stop if you did you could stop with some hesitation & just watch porn here n there you just need to smash your computer there is a awsum world out there once you get past the computer
That is like telling an alcoholic they can have a few drinks now and then.Addiction does not work that way.