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CS09nxkb
Jul 17, 2009, 06:24 PM
All right this is something I honestly have never done before? I am pregnant for the first time ever and I am really unsure of who the father is. I had sex with two men in the same week, but it is really hard to tell who the father is. One we had sex and he used a condom but still pulled out right before he 'went', but I'm paranoid the condom could have broke. The other we didn't use a condom but he did not 'go' inside of me, so I donot know if he's the father or the other one. There's the possibility the condom broke with the first one, even if he did pull out in time, then with the other I've heard about precum but its not always effective. So who is the father. Please a professional, or anyone please help and answer my question. Im stressing so much about this and its not good for the baby or me. PLEASE HELP ME!

J_9
Jul 17, 2009, 06:27 PM
Unfortunately there is no way to know who the father of the baby is until the baby is born and a DNA test is done.

CS09nxkb
Jul 17, 2009, 07:23 PM
Thanks for being an about it whoever you are, zippit. You don't know me or the whole entire life story, so you shouldn't go around saying rude and uncalled for stuff like that.

Fr_Chuck
Jul 17, 2009, 08:27 PM
Issue here

You keep thinking that pulling out is a method??
It is not, people who pull out are called parents. It merely reduces the sperm, But there is still a lot of sperm that goes before.

Next condoms have a normal 3 percent failure when used properly, act estimates have failure as normally used at 10 percent failure.