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rawrx0
Jul 17, 2009, 08:34 AM
I'm 2 months pregnant and for the past 2 weeks I haven't had any signs of pregnancy I'm not tired anymore not nasuea no headaches nothing and I'm just wondering what this could mean? I still haven't gotten my period either and I'm waiting to see if I will get it whithin the next week which will be my normal date... any advicee?

artlady
Jul 17, 2009, 08:39 AM
Not all women experience problems with pregnancy.I felt quite well throughout both of mine ,barring the usual complaints.
It is not a sickness and should not be considered one.
If you are pregnant ,why would you be anticipating getting your period?
If you care to elaborate on that ,we can discuss this further.

rawrx0
Jul 17, 2009, 08:43 AM
See I'm only 16 & I haven't told my parents yet; because if I do they will kick me out, and I'm still looking for a clinic that I can go to because I do not have $700.00 and no inurance & I thought maybe if the signs went away I could be about to miscarry; yes I'm young & stupid and everyone says why have sex if you weren't responsible and we were used a condom and everything.

Justwantfair
Jul 17, 2009, 08:45 AM
That doesn't make sense.
How did you confirm your pregnancy? Not everyone experiences symptoms the same.
I don't understand why you are waiting for your period if you are pregnant. Do you think that magically you became 'not pregnant' that is why you don't have symptoms at two months?

HotPotato2009
Jul 17, 2009, 08:45 AM
It's normal. Most women don't have any symptons of pregnancy that early.

I'm sure you will be feeling something (cravings, moodswings, etc) soon lol.

Congrats on your pregnancy!

artlady
Jul 17, 2009, 08:45 AM
see im only 16 & i havent told my parents yet; becuase if i do they will kick me out, and im still looking for a clinic that i can go to becuase i do not have $700.00 and no inurance & i thought maybe if the signs went away i could be about to miscarry; yes im young & stupid and everyone says why have sex if you werent responsible and we were used a condom and everything.

Did you have a positive pregnancy test?

Justwantfair
Jul 17, 2009, 08:48 AM
see im only 16 & i havent told my parents yet; becuase if i do they will kick me out, and im still looking for a clinic that i can go to becuase i do not have $700.00 and no inurance & i thought maybe if the signs went away i could be about to miscarry; yes im young & stupid and everyone says why have sex if you werent responsible and we were used a condom and everything.

I would have thought about the pill. You are right you are in a heap of a predicament, but you do have options, most of which will have to be discussed with your parents. A magic fairy isn't going to take away your pregnancy and help you wake up from your nightmare.

First, you are going to have to talk to your parents, the sooner the better. You aren't going to be able to hide a pregnancy from them for 9 months.

Second, you have options and support available to you. You are in a serious situation and you need to weigh all of your options because being a young single mother is something you shouldn't go through and something you can't even begin to imagine.

rawrx0
Jul 17, 2009, 08:48 AM
Yeah so that's how I figured I was pregnant and I've been looking up information and everything just to try and see what's going on and I just been trying to save up money for an abortion but its just impossible for me to get all that money.

Justwantfair
Jul 17, 2009, 08:50 AM
You have to talk to your parents, you can't get out of this without them.

rawrx0
Jul 17, 2009, 08:53 AM
I wish you knew them; they won't help me at all, especially since my dad is sick & all my moms concers are to making sure she can help him with his kidney failure and to find a doner and him being paralyzed and everythings it really hard... are there any clinics in Brooklyn that will help me if I have no money or insurance? Don't they have to help someone with no money & income?

HotPotato2009
Jul 17, 2009, 08:54 AM
Do you have a welfare office in your town? They may be able to help. But like eveyone else says, you should really really talk to your parents

artlady
Jul 17, 2009, 08:54 AM
yeah so thats how i figured i was pregnant and ive been looking up information and everything just to try and see whats going on and i just been trying to save up money for an abortion but its just impossible for me to get all that money.

You really need to tell your parents.
I do not think they can legally throw you out,I could be wrong.
Also ,if you are planning on an abortion,there is a limited amount of time when you can do that legally.
If you have a family friend ,a friends parent who can help you talk to them,you must do that now.
If you tell me where you live I will see what recources are available in your area.

danielnoahsmommy
Jul 17, 2009, 08:56 AM
You don't even know if you are pregnant and are already planing an abortion? Go to planned parenthood!

Justwantfair
Jul 17, 2009, 08:57 AM
You are sixteen, they won't do any procedure without your parent's consent to my knowledge.
You are up a huge creek with a short paddle.

Your family has so much on their plate, why the rebellion? Don't you think your mom could use your support and assistance?

How can we help first because this is a big problem, bigger then just coming up with the cost. You will need a support system following such a procedure, as it will be emotionally devastating.

artlady
Jul 17, 2009, 08:58 AM
Here is a link for planned parenthood in Brooklyn
Planned Parenthood - New York City (http://www.plannedparenthood.org/nyc/)

Justwantfair
Jul 17, 2009, 08:58 AM
you dont even know if you are pregnant and are already planing an abortion? go to planned parenthood!

Positive pregnancy test usually means pregnancy.

rawrx0
Jul 17, 2009, 08:58 AM
I live in Brooklyn in New York, and they do abortions here up until 6 months, but I don't want to wait that long & is it normal to have had the signs of pregnancy & now there gone?

danielnoahsmommy
Jul 17, 2009, 08:59 AM
Sorry, I guess I mised where she said she tested

artlady
Jul 17, 2009, 09:00 AM
You are sixteen, they won't do any procedure without your parent's consent to my knowledge.
You are up a huge creek with a short paddle.

Your family has so much on their plate, why the rebellion? Don't you think your mom could use your support and assistance?

How can we help first because this is a big problem, bigger then just coming up with the cost. You will need a support system following such a procedure, as it will be emotionally devastating.

Oddly enough they will according to their website.Unless I am reading it wrong.
Teens' Rights to Services & Confidentiality - Planned Parenthood - New York City (http://www.plannedparenthood.org/nyc/teens-rights-services-confidentiality-15235.htm)

Justwantfair
Jul 17, 2009, 09:00 AM
i live in Brooklyn in New York, and they do abortions here up until 6 months, but i dont wanna wait that long & is it normal to have had the signs of pregnancy & now there gone?

Yes.

artlady
Jul 17, 2009, 09:03 AM
i live in Brooklyn in New York, and they do abortions here up until 6 months, but i dont wanna wait that long & is it normal to have had the signs of pregnancy & now there gone?

No place does an abortion up to 6 months,unless it is a medical emergency and that is very rare.You need to move quickly if you are sure this is what you want.

rawrx0
Jul 17, 2009, 09:06 AM
Thank u for the website, I know they will do it without my parents, does anyone know if they have free clinics?

HotPotato2009
Jul 17, 2009, 09:07 AM
I think Planned Parenthood is a free clinic for teens 18 and younger. You'll have to call and ask to make sure though

artlady
Jul 17, 2009, 09:08 AM
thank u for the website, i know they will do it without my parents, does anyone know if they have free clinics?

The website has all the information you need and a phone number.They can answer all of your concerns.

HotPotato2009
Jul 17, 2009, 09:09 AM
Good Luck rawrx0!

rawrx0
Jul 17, 2009, 09:10 AM
thank you everyone who has helped(=

Justwantfair
Jul 17, 2009, 09:11 AM
thank you everyone who has helped(=

Please come back when this emotionally sets in. You will need counseling.

Kris1013
Jul 18, 2009, 01:20 AM
She may need support... but she should also realize that abortion is not a form of birth control. Next time she should be more careful... and hopefully for her sake she'll wait until she's old enough to deal with the consequences of sex. Just my opinion ;-)