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SwayRabbit
Jul 15, 2009, 09:01 PM
My last period was in May 15-22, it's now July (I had a previous miscarriage at 8 weeks but other than that pregnancy I 'ave never skipped a period) and I am 'aving symptoms of pregnancy but all the home test I take come back either inconclusive or negative. Is it possible that my hormones are too low to show up on a hpt? If I am pregnant, would I be far enough along to show up if I had an ultrasound? Thank you for any help or advice you could give me!

jenniepepsi
Jul 15, 2009, 09:36 PM
I would suggest you see your doctor or go to a free clinic. How old are you?

I'm not judging you, so please understand that... but you are scared that you are pregnant... you had a miscarriage already... and you think your pregnant again... shouldnt it be time to think of some preventing?

SwayRabbit
Jul 15, 2009, 10:03 PM
I'm 25. I'm not afraid of being pregnant, I'm afraid of going through another miscarriage. My first miscarriage happened 3 years ago and the day I found out I barely had enough time to register that I was pregnant before I miscarried (the night I found out). I'm in a very loving relationship with my husband, but I want to find out for sure before I get his or my family's hopes up again.

jenniepepsi
Jul 15, 2009, 10:21 PM
Ooh I see. Thank you for that clarification :) I'm sorry I misunderstood.

In this case, I know exactly how you feel. I have miscarried before and my hsuband and I are trying to get pregnant (we have one 5 year old girl, and we want one more because our daughter is his step daughter, and though he loves her very much, he wants a child of 'his loins' I guess would be a good term for it :P )

Its possible that you are not pregnant and the stress you are going through is delaying your period. I would see your doctor about your concerns. If nothing else he can put your mind to rest with a definite yes or no answer.

Good luck hon.

SwayRabbit
Jul 15, 2009, 10:28 PM
Thanks, honestly I wasn't thinking about even my period until I noticed I was over a month late, and I 'ave been trying hard not to stress, and the doctors are booked up something fierce right now and I'm 'aving to play wait and see until I get an appointment.

artlady
Jul 15, 2009, 10:38 PM
I know that you can buy rather inexpensive HPT'S but I would try buying a higher end product and be sure to use first mornings urine.
A full bladder is best and using the stick during mid flow is recommended as well.