3rdwheelfriend
Jul 15, 2009, 07:33 AM
Hi,
This is my first time posting a question so I'm a little nervous:) My best friend of almost 8 years has become very close with another woman. We all teach at the same school and exercise together. For some reason, I do not trust this person... she is nice but seems to be overwhelming to me. For example, she talks quite a bit when we are all together. My best friend adores her... whenever this person walks into the room, my best friend just lights up. They laugh and talk in whispers and I feel so left out. My best friend and this woman like to go out and drink about every 6 weeks or so... I don't go with them because I hate how they act when they are drunk. My best friend is now telling this woman secrets that she use to only tell me... what should I do? I love my best friend very much and I want her to be happy. Do I just walk away and let her go? Are my feelings unreasonable? I want to do what is right but whenever I see them together it hurts so much. Is there something wrong with me? Thanks
This is my first time posting a question so I'm a little nervous:) My best friend of almost 8 years has become very close with another woman. We all teach at the same school and exercise together. For some reason, I do not trust this person... she is nice but seems to be overwhelming to me. For example, she talks quite a bit when we are all together. My best friend adores her... whenever this person walks into the room, my best friend just lights up. They laugh and talk in whispers and I feel so left out. My best friend and this woman like to go out and drink about every 6 weeks or so... I don't go with them because I hate how they act when they are drunk. My best friend is now telling this woman secrets that she use to only tell me... what should I do? I love my best friend very much and I want her to be happy. Do I just walk away and let her go? Are my feelings unreasonable? I want to do what is right but whenever I see them together it hurts so much. Is there something wrong with me? Thanks