Nucklehead22
Jul 8, 2009, 02:48 PM
Hello, first I would like to say you guys give really good advice here, and I've read many other topics looking for situations like mine. I just wanted to explain my story though.
Currently I am 16; and I have had previous girlfriends before this one, but they have all been, well lets just say... for fun? Anyway, this girl that I was with for 6 months, she made really happy, and it definitely wasn't just "for fun". She has strict parents, so we had to keep it from her family. She can't even have male friends! Even at school. It was tough for her to live a double life. Another problem was she had a best friend who she "flirted" with constantly everyday. I had a talk with that guy. Lets just say he never came back or talked to us. My mistake I suppose, I should have not went so harsh on him. So everything was fine for the longest time, we had a few dumb arguments, but usually 30 minutes later we would come back to each other both apologizing. Better off having arguments and knowing how each other feel then no communication, I suppose. Now, things got rough at the end where the guy came back and she started spending more time with him. That's when she told me she liked him before, so she always let him touch her and all that. By touch I mean, everywhere. She seemed perfectly fine with it too. I was going to beat the out of that guy,but she convinced me not to. Forward a couple weeks later, she broke up with me. Blocked all contact from me. Started connecting with the other guy who HAS A GIRLFRIEND APPARENTLY, and just forgot about me. I find myself hating her, wanting to kill her, yes it's crazy but I can't explain why I feel this way. So what I'm wondering is, why do I seem to always never think about her in a negative way, while she picks off every bad thing about me? And how hard will it be to see her with another guy next school year? It will happen. I already know it is, her friends have told me. Why isn't karma getting to her? I know for sure that I've received my fair share of karma, I've done multiple surgeries, gotten mugged on the streets, and almost hit by a car. Thanks.
Currently I am 16; and I have had previous girlfriends before this one, but they have all been, well lets just say... for fun? Anyway, this girl that I was with for 6 months, she made really happy, and it definitely wasn't just "for fun". She has strict parents, so we had to keep it from her family. She can't even have male friends! Even at school. It was tough for her to live a double life. Another problem was she had a best friend who she "flirted" with constantly everyday. I had a talk with that guy. Lets just say he never came back or talked to us. My mistake I suppose, I should have not went so harsh on him. So everything was fine for the longest time, we had a few dumb arguments, but usually 30 minutes later we would come back to each other both apologizing. Better off having arguments and knowing how each other feel then no communication, I suppose. Now, things got rough at the end where the guy came back and she started spending more time with him. That's when she told me she liked him before, so she always let him touch her and all that. By touch I mean, everywhere. She seemed perfectly fine with it too. I was going to beat the out of that guy,but she convinced me not to. Forward a couple weeks later, she broke up with me. Blocked all contact from me. Started connecting with the other guy who HAS A GIRLFRIEND APPARENTLY, and just forgot about me. I find myself hating her, wanting to kill her, yes it's crazy but I can't explain why I feel this way. So what I'm wondering is, why do I seem to always never think about her in a negative way, while she picks off every bad thing about me? And how hard will it be to see her with another guy next school year? It will happen. I already know it is, her friends have told me. Why isn't karma getting to her? I know for sure that I've received my fair share of karma, I've done multiple surgeries, gotten mugged on the streets, and almost hit by a car. Thanks.