uk619
Jul 6, 2009, 10:58 PM
OK so me and my fiancé have been together for 4 and a half years, and recently she has been hanging out with an old friend of mine sarah and her sister April. Well the guy (kevin) around the block from my fiancé is dating April but they broke up two days ago. So I get a bad feeling about everything so I checked our cell phone bill (which I pay for) and see a number I don't know so I call text it and at first they tell me they are a woman named cheryl and then he finally tells me he's kevin. So I looked at the phone bill and my fiancé and kevin had been texting (not calling) each other for about 2 weeks before him and April broke up. So I asked sarah if she knew about my fiancé and kevin texting and she said no. so I then though to myself why does no one know about there friendship. So I call my fiancé at her dads and asked her about it and she said they had been talking about kevins and April relationship and some times mine and hers. So she tells me she doesn't want to talk about it in front of her dad so she calls me when she leaves and yells at me and tells me I had no right checking the phone bill (that I pay $200 a month for) and confronting kevin about it. She told me they were friends that would never hang out and she is just trying to play matchmaker. So I'm furious cause she hid their friendship from me. So I asked her if she had been cheating and then she gets more offended. I trust her 100%(well used too) and I don't know why she hid their friendship so I asked and she said she didn't want to tell me they were friends cause I didn't like him. And that she didn't have to tell me every time she talked to some one. Well my phelisophy is that I should know her friends right?? I don't know what to do I love her and trust her but if she hid (no lying involved) there friendship then what else was she hiding.
So then sarah calls her and asks about it and then calls me back mad again saying how I had no right talking to her about it even though sarah was my friend first. But it gets better I kept asking why they were texting before kevin and April broke up and she would get quiet and last night she got trashed with her two girl friends and texted him like 50 times back and forth. And then she said it was about April and she said "when he texts me what am i supposed to do not text him"
I'm so lost do I salavge our relationship or end it with no cheating or lying just hiding
That should do it please give me feed back and if you need something explained further let me know
So then sarah calls her and asks about it and then calls me back mad again saying how I had no right talking to her about it even though sarah was my friend first. But it gets better I kept asking why they were texting before kevin and April broke up and she would get quiet and last night she got trashed with her two girl friends and texted him like 50 times back and forth. And then she said it was about April and she said "when he texts me what am i supposed to do not text him"
I'm so lost do I salavge our relationship or end it with no cheating or lying just hiding
That should do it please give me feed back and if you need something explained further let me know