Well there was this guy I was dating last year. But the relationship did not last at all-just for 2 months. And then he was seen with another girl who happened to be in my own accommodation. We did not meet or talk to each other for 6 months. I went to my home town after my exams got over and came back after 2 months to start my fresh academic year. Two days after I came back he met me and asked me stuff like how was my holiday, family etc. I asked him how his girlfriend was and he said that the girl he was seeing was not his girlfriend but his cousin sister and that she had gone for good and was getting married. I did not press the matter though I was surprised.

Since then he has'nt met me for nearly 45 days nor has he tried to contact me in any way.it does bother me because I think I want him back. But I'm not sure if he wants me back. Imean he must have just met me casually? What should I do and besides he is a looot older to me . I'm in my final year high school and he has completed his engineering and is going to start his job. Is he just playing with me because we never had sex. What should I do? Please help me

It sounds like you guys ran into each other and he was being polite just catching up with you. Pretty normal thing when you run into someone you haven't seen for awhile. So, my advice, move on. Find someone your own age. Focus on your classes and forget him.

I think if he wanted you back then you would know it. You would have picked up a vibe or some signs. He was just doing the polite thing with small talk. Which was better then turning his head like he was avoiding you.

Leave it be. You said it's been over 45 days since you've seen each other or talked. If he was interested you would know.

If he was interested, he would have contacted you. So I think it's pretty clear that you need to stop thinking about him and move on with your life.

You're graduating high school, it's a big step. There's so much stuff ahead to look forward to.