I have now discovered that the reason for my deep well pump to be rappidly recycling is that there is an hole in the bladder therefore the tank is not holding any pressure.
A few years ago I was watching an episode of "This Old House". They had installed a tankless deep well water system. I am not sure what the gadget was but inside they had a gadget that turned on the pump as water was needed. Does anyone know where can I find more information on tankless system.

Does anyone know where can I find more information on tankless system.
You wish a "on demand" system. Bypass the bladder tank. That way every time you draw a glass of water or flush a toilet the pump will kick in. That's the function of pressure and bladder tanks. To prevent a "on demand" system. Regareds, Tom