What is there that I can do or say to find out if my wife is cheating on me? She hides her phone and erases her text messages

You can ask her and see + hear her response. If she gets defensive then something is up. Read her body language.

Or you can hire a PI. If she has a sims card with her phone you can buy a sim card reader and it will download all of her text messages (including the ones she deleted) to the device then you connect it to a computer and read away.

I've heard the quote that if you suspect that their cheating, then they probably are. It seems very odd that she would delete/hide text messages from you. I would be VERY curious if I were you.

what is there that i can do or say to find out if my wife is cheating on me? she hides her phone and erases her text messages
Got bad news for you, if you're suspect of her cheating, then she probably is.

Sorry.

Have you asked her about it?

Well you can try talking to her looking at he phone bill n calling the number she text n speak to the guy n find out. While she sleeps find her phone and go through it. Good luck

Ask her. There is nothing better than the direct approach.

I assume you know your wife well enough by now to 'read' her response.

If she's hiding her phone and erasing her texts, it's not a good sign. Having said that, sometimes we can be paranoid for no good reason.

Ask her directly. Always good to keep the communication open.

Just ask her.

Or hire a PI and you can go that route

Since you give very little info, why do you think she is cheating? Is it just her privacy of her cell phone that makes you suspicious? Does she disappear all the time? Stay at work to long? Go out a lot?