Hi, I have a baby shower to go to for my sister in law tomorrow, it's a surprise one that my mother in law and her sisters from 3 hours away are driving down to throw it for her. My problem is that I don't want to go because they never threw a shower for me 2 years ago with my daughter, which I think is very rude. I'm really having a problem with this and just don't want to go, but can't seem to tell them this either. What would you guys do, Do you think I'm overacting?

My husband thinks I should go. He says that I'm just the in law and she's blood so it's different, but I don't agree. HELP!

Also I've already been to a shower for her on the other side of the family.

SHOW SOME SUPPORT FOR YOUR SISTER... the next baby shower hopefully your sister will give it the attention you need it to be... these are the in-laws... never.. never... ever have them believe there is a family division... it will empower them... keep your opinions of jealously to yourself... be the golden goddess... represent your family with divine expectations and self control... represent the fruit-age of the spirit... be positive... every thing will be just fine... for the both of you... have fun... ;)