Me and my partner split up for 2 weeks and in that time he was sending explicit texts to the girl he works with,they even kissed on the lips once. We since then got back together,well as soon as I found the texts.since then I have this recurring dream that he is leaving me for her.and I mean they are vivid and very upsetting,I dream they have sex as well.could someone please help me understand this dream.thanks x

You're afraid of losing him to her. It's nothing more complicated than that, which I'm sure you already knew. You need to talk to him about it before the fear will go away, and the dreams.

Even though they didn't have sex, be careful taking back a cheater. Explicit love letters ,kissing... just watch it. That's why you're dreaming about it. He's compromised your trust and it should be affecting HIS dreams. He should be the one having sleepless nights. How does he sleep? Probably good , knowing now he can have his cake and eat it too. Good luck with the whole thing.

He didn't cheat on me,he kissed her and text her when we had split up,and of course he sleeps well.we also have a 4 month old baby girl together.I just want to stop having these dreams,I have them at least 4 times a week!

Hey
Let me tell you one thing... the base of relationship is TRUST.. without it a relationship cannot struggle... actually you have not cleared your mind from his side... if you believe that he is a sincear guy then there is nothing to worry.. and one thing more.. DONT think about those happenings again... just think about pleasant things about you and him and about your relation... whenever you will clear your mind you will get rid off these dreams... I guarantee

I agree that the dreams are reflecting your worse fears. You need to rebuild trust and closeness or they may continue.

OK what I can say about this is that is your just woried and don't want to leave you so just ask him if it is true I'm shur he will tell you the truth