There are so many posts about this topic that people used to get it 3-4 times a day and now its every other day. My relationship had an amazing sex life, in the very beginning we used to do it a couple days a week because we had the time. Since we don't live together we cannot do it all the time.

For about a year the days were decreasing and now its only 1 day or sometimes 2 days. Is it weird though that my sex life could not be any better because it feels as though it is the best time I've ever had? We are not worried about anything, that 1 or 2 days makes everything so much more special and during the week we sometimes pleasure each other in different ways. We don't even pay attention to the deacresed number of times we have sex, we just look at it as the best time of your life sex then every day boring sex.

I have never heard of anything like this from anybody and hopefully this makes some people feel good about their sex lives.

P.S even though we do it 1 day a week, in that one day we can go at it up to 5 times.

Awesome. You're right, and lucky too. You are addressing the quality versus quantity issue. I believe that most women who complain about a lack of frequent sex also complain of lousy sex. Lousy sex usually means little foreplay and a selfish/impatient lover.

I am happy to know my wife and I are not the only couple to have this situation . Kids , Her work , ( I am retired Military ) . Trust me, couples who do still love each other even after 18 years of monogamous marriage ask themselves all sorts of questions . Yet as hard as it is at may be, we try to find our time. Never is it boring. Falling in love again.

My motto is: Never complain IF you ARE getting it.
And, you are lucky!

I'd love to get it once or twice a week...

My partners and I's schedules are very conflicted so we are either sleeping or working which makes things hard.
He works night shift and I try to stay up and wait for him but I quite often fall asleep (in front of the computer with AMHD on the screen :o )
When we do have sex though... think rabbits ;) lol