My beloved boyfriend of twenty-two months says I text or call him too much. How do I stop myself from calling or texting him every day so that he doesn't get fed up and leave me?

Why do you feel the need to call and text him constantly?

Do you not trust him? Or do you just miss him?

You obviously need more activities to occupy your time so that you don't feel the need to bother him every second of the day. Pick up a hobby.

Also, how old are the two of you?

I agree with Chihuahua on this...

But maybe whenever you feel the need, call or text a friend instead. But find some other things to do as well. Do you have a life of your own?

I think you need to develop some interests that are independent of your b/f. You will drive him away if you are to clingy and needy. Make plans with friends and do things on your own before it is too late.

Break up with him,

Go no contact for a week or two,

If you love something, let it go, if it comes back to you its yours, if it doesn't it never was...

Test him and yourself,

What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.

IMO, all the best.

Get a hobby, don't make him your whole life but keep him a part of it