View Full Version : What should I do?
thatkid1234
Jun 17, 2009, 10:10 PM
Ok so here is my situation... I am a guy and I have been best friends with this girl for like 3 years and I am so glad that were friends. Well we liked each other and then this other guy came into her life and she went out with him. After that I went out with a girl for 2 months and my friend is still going out with the same guy. I am like in love with this girl, at the same time she is in love with me and her boyfriend also. She doesn't know what to do either, she says she loves both of us and she doesn't want me to be mad/sad at the choice she makes. I told her to make the choice that she wants because I will love her no matter what she does. She is going away and she says she misses me more than her boyfriend. Her family doesn't like her boyfriend but I am good friends with her brother and they like me. I don't know if I should wait for her or go on because it won't be the same without her. What do I do?? :confused:
I wish
Jun 17, 2009, 10:22 PM
Well, she knows how you feel. I'm guessing that you already let her know that you want more than a friendship.
So let her figure out what she wants. Leave her alone until she sorts it out. You don't want to put her in a position where she will cheat.
MandyMarieLove
Jun 17, 2009, 10:29 PM
Hey Hun,
Here's my opinion on it. If she truly loves you, she'll pick you. Not to be a jerk, but if she doesn't, she doesn't. Be her friend and move on. You'll find someone else.. if she doesn't pick you, you'll know she's not the one. And if she is, she'll come back to you. I know it confusing. But that's what love is.. lol. Give her time, I know she is completely worried about hurting you. And I know for sure she has a place for you in her heart, that'll never go away no matter who she decides to be with. The more time she takes the more she'll know she made the right decision, so let her be for a little. Leave that out the conversations you have for a while.. she'll tell you what she has decided in time.. promise. :DDD