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lindag42
Jun 16, 2009, 06:03 PM
My 22 year old daughter acts like she hates which I think she really does. She talks to me like I'm nothing. She is killing me on the inside and I just want it to stop.

ZoeMarie
Jun 16, 2009, 06:12 PM
Do you have some examples of the way she talks to you/treats you? Has something happened recently that she would have a change of heart or has she been going through something difficult?

jjwoodhull
Jun 16, 2009, 06:13 PM
Can you give us more information about your relationship with her?

JoeCanada76
Jun 16, 2009, 06:37 PM
Have you actually tried to communicate. You have not really given much detail in your thread. So why not explain all that is happening and what led up to this and what is the situation now.

Children grow up and they want independence. Please explain your situation better if you want better advice about your situation.

Sugarush21
Sep 25, 2009, 07:28 AM
My daughter is the same and pregnant, I feel like she is using her pregnancy my first grandchild as a weapon, to hurt me, and it does hurt, as I have always been a great mom to her, and wanted to be a part of her pregnancy with her and instead she has shut me out, her father (who I am divorced from) seems to encourage her hate of me and her new step mom, I am now standing back and in a few weeks she gives birth, I have not heard from her or seen her for the whole of her pregnancy

Sugarush21
Sep 25, 2009, 07:31 AM
In my case I don`t know where she is living or her phone number, I wish her well, but I won`t be upsetting myself anymore, its not okay for chidlren to be so hurtful for no good reason it shows their lack of respect and caring 22 years old is not a baby

Sugarush21
Sep 25, 2009, 07:32 AM
I wish her well, but I won`t be upsetting myself anymore, its not okay for our grown children to be so hurtful for no good reason it shows their lack of respect and caring to us as parents and 22 years old is not a baby

Sugarush21
Sep 25, 2009, 07:33 AM
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Sugarush21
Sep 25, 2009, 07:34 AM
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