Zraocohk
Jun 16, 2009, 11:03 AM
Recently my girlfriend of 9 months and I broke up. I fell into a small depression for a while, but naturally, with time I got better. I started talking to another girl, but I was taking things really slow, in order to respect my ex and also just because I didn't want to rush into anything I was unsure of. I came to find out out that my ex had a new boyfriend within about 3 weeks, so she must have gotten over me more quickly than I even expected. I got completely over her and decided that I need to move on to someone else. I started talking to the other girl more and more, trying to get to know her extremely well. The thing is, when I meet people, I can usually get a pretty accurate read or analysis on people by first impression. But with her, I can't. I have no idea what she's thinking or how she feels about me. It makes me halfway excited and halfway scared. She is definitely the biggest challenge I've ever faced, and I don't know how I should feel about her yet because I don't know how she feels about me.
I've been in the position where I always think about someone, but with her, I can literally think about her 24 hours a day. It gets to the point where I find myself getting more and more anxious/depressed thinking so hard about the situation. I've gotten to know her a lot better but, I still can't figure out what she's thinking and that's the part that drives me crazy. I know that I like her a lot, but I don't know if I should. Part of me thinks that she likes me, because of the way that she acts (flirty, uncomfortable in person, etc.), but the other part has absolutely no idea. I just feel like I'm completely oblivious to her, and it makes me so anxious because it's such a new feeling to me, there's never been anyone who I have no idea what they're thinking.
Anyway, in the last couple days, she hasn't responded to me, and I can't figure out why.. It's been about 3 days now, and my anxiety continues to get worse and worse. Did I cause this? Did I wait too long to make a move and cause her to loose interest? Did I simply over commit myself to her? I don't even know if she ever liked me in the first place. It would help me a lot to just know what she thinks about me or what she sees me as, whether it's just a friend or if she likes me. I just want to know before it's too late, if she likes me, I have to do something about it before she slips away.. It's literally making me go crazy not knowing. :/
Please help, Thank you in advance
I've been in the position where I always think about someone, but with her, I can literally think about her 24 hours a day. It gets to the point where I find myself getting more and more anxious/depressed thinking so hard about the situation. I've gotten to know her a lot better but, I still can't figure out what she's thinking and that's the part that drives me crazy. I know that I like her a lot, but I don't know if I should. Part of me thinks that she likes me, because of the way that she acts (flirty, uncomfortable in person, etc.), but the other part has absolutely no idea. I just feel like I'm completely oblivious to her, and it makes me so anxious because it's such a new feeling to me, there's never been anyone who I have no idea what they're thinking.
Anyway, in the last couple days, she hasn't responded to me, and I can't figure out why.. It's been about 3 days now, and my anxiety continues to get worse and worse. Did I cause this? Did I wait too long to make a move and cause her to loose interest? Did I simply over commit myself to her? I don't even know if she ever liked me in the first place. It would help me a lot to just know what she thinks about me or what she sees me as, whether it's just a friend or if she likes me. I just want to know before it's too late, if she likes me, I have to do something about it before she slips away.. It's literally making me go crazy not knowing. :/
Please help, Thank you in advance