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lisa333
Jun 14, 2009, 09:40 AM
My cousin is in a relationship that is really not healthy. He was such a nice sweet guy.He has changed a lot with his family when he met this woman.He is constantly nervous.I don't know how to convince him to move on.. When you are in a healthy realionship you should be happy and not change for the worse.. Some input would be great.. Thank you

talaniman
Jun 14, 2009, 09:47 AM
You leave him alone to draw his own conclusions, and make his own decisions, and learn his own lessons.

Has he asked you for help, if not, butt out of his business.

liz28
Jun 14, 2009, 09:49 AM
You can't make him change nor make him leave his girlfriend but you can express how you feel about the situation--that is it.

You have to know when to butt out and stay off someone else business after you said your peace.

He has to realize the relationship is unhealthy and leave himself.

Now I wonder what changes this girl put him through or if it is just a case of his family not liking her and he choose her over you? Add more details!

lisa333
Jun 14, 2009, 10:50 AM
No he changed in the sense thathe was more happier before. Know he is constantly nervous he usto to be so nice before and so sweet
We did not ask him to choose her or us.

mudweiser
Jun 14, 2009, 10:54 AM
Have you talked to him about it?

I would share my concern with him only once and leave it at that. If he's old enough to be in a relationship, he's old enough to understand the responsibilities that come along with it.


Sarah